Love at first sight
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**Kudos to the organizer for bringing out a topic of this magnitude.
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I want to take us through some point and I believe after my explanation, readers and curators will be able to deduce valid points and valid conclusions.
What is love?
You can say it is profound and caring towards someone. It can also be the feeling of intense attraction towards someone. People define love as a deep or abiding liking for someone. It can also be an attachment based on sexual desire.
The above definition will be stated when asked about love.
I believe love is a gradual process that sets in after a series of events and later leads to caring and affection. Events could be contact, events could be desired, it could even be physical meetings.
What is lust?
It is a feeling of strong desire, especially such a feeling driven by sexual arousal.
It can also be said to be the look at or watch with a strong desire, especially of a sexual nature. Lust is also a gradual action but it is quite deceitful and the end is always bad.
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**Love at first sight **
When someone is sighted for the first time, the best way to denote any form of affection that exist should be like or likeness, reason been that when a man sight a lady for example, he scan through her and if possible, he may see the quality he wanted in a lady at that spot surely if that happens then the guy like the lady not love, it can only result in love when they exchange greetings and other things follow, any other feelings that set in at that spot is termed LUST.
If a man meets twenty beautiful and endowed ladies in a day, without argument he will tell you he loves fifteen of them at first sight, will you call this love? No it isn't.
Some people take lust for love, the urge or the feeling that is sexually inclined when you notice a lady or a man is not love but purely lust.
This doesn't affect the fact that love can be built at first sight, but I will tell you that the percentage is very low compared to lust at first sight.
In conclusion, with respect to my points, views and examples. I have come a conclusion, I do not believe in love at first sight.
Thanks for your time!!!
Love is not lust!!!