This Week's Prompts:
📝 A lot is happening among the teenagers today, and it's disappointing that sometimes they neglect the lessons from their parents. Let's imagine a female child got impregnated while seeking admission into the university. What would be your next line of action as a parent?
First of all... I do not support the case of getting pregnant while seeking for admission into university, because why?? But since it's s question...I will answer it from my own perspective...
First of all, as a mum, I will advise my girls not to do anything that will make me have issues with them because seriously, if I didn't do it to my parents while will my female children wants to disappoint me.... I will tell them everything about premarital sex and it's effect and consequences so that when it happens you will know that you are on your own.....
Of course, no parent especially the mum will want any of her children to get pregnant out of wedlock, but sometimes life happens and we have to accept fate.....
Now, God forbid ooooo oOoOO, like I no d carry dis question play... If any of my girl child should get pregnant while seeking for admission, I will be sooooo mad, I will be frustrated, I will be angry, I will be ashame, I will be.... Ómór, I can't even find the right words to describe how I will feel for the past 2 months infact during the period of the pregnancy..... Words cannot describe....
Like, you were seeking for admission, and in the process you came back with the admission to the the next level.... At the point we have actually stopped looking seeking for the admission oOoOO seriously, we will now be seeking for father of the unwanted child... Because automatically he has become a father, and God do help the child it is not a young school boy....
And she won't go to school with the pregnancy oOoOO, her academic will be in a pause for that period of her pregnancy journey because no child of mine will go to school with Unwanted Pregnancy which will make her lose focus....
Yes I will be upset and all of that, I won't lie... But then, the deed has already been done all the child needs is love, care, support, and understanding...
As a young mother, my next line of steps will be;
I will have a dialogue conversation
After all the done and said, I will have a mother to daughter conversation with her, I want to know why she did what she did Even after everything I taught her and even all she has heard.... I want to know how she feels about all of this and I will make the conversation a non judgemental one
Give support
In as much as my daughter hurt me, I can't abandon her because she fucked up, after I have unleashed my anger for 3 months, I know I won't still be happy, but I have to support my child, I have to give her everything she needs at that stage, I have to reassure her that she is not alone in the journey and that she is love irrespective of anything
I will educate her more on the effects of what just happened
I will have to tell her the truth OOO, you can't go to school for now, all the future plans you had is on hold for now and I will have to tell her that my husband is still very angry and upset and that she should give her father time, and he will come around
We will plan her future together
Finally, as her mother, I will not want my child to lose hope in whatever was her future plans... I will reassure her that she will fulfill all the goals and she will do that by us outlining everything she will do going forward without leaving the child out of it... Because automatically, the child has become her responsibility....
It's not always easy to face this, but she isn't the first, but I don't support any child to get pregnant in the course of seeking admission na....
Take a look at me, I seeked admission and now I am about finishing without wahalaur... Make my child no come disappoint me barb, I no go happy....
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