Hello everyone, how are you? Today is the weekend. How are you? Did you have a good weekend? Now, I'll answer the second question from this community. I realized my husband no longer loves me. This situation occurred a year after we were married. How should I react, and what are my next steps?
It could be said that after marriage, our partner is like our first home. Disappointment may arise from this situation. Why does this happen? Is there something I did wrong? A year of marriage is a very short time.
This is a bit difficult, because I'm not married yet. But if that happened in my life, what would I do? I need to review the prenuptial agreement we made. I think a prenuptial agreement is important for women. Next, I'll work on making sure we love each other.
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Perhaps there's no time for the two of us, no time to date again after marriage. So I'm thinking about rekindling our dating habits. And I think that will rekindle the love between us.
Also, I'll talk to my partner about what's happened this past year. Are there any mistakes I've made that contributed to this situation? But I'll also ask the most crucial question: Does my husband still want to stay in this marriage?
For me, maintaining a marriage isn't just one person's responsibility. It's two people's responsibility; the mission and vision of the marriage need to be aligned. The next, equally important question is, is there a third person between us? For me, the presence of a third person is unforgivable.
If there was a third person, I would ask for a divorce. For me, bringing a stranger into a relationship is difficult to forgive. Even if it were forgiven, the affair would continue. That's probably all I can share. What do you think? Do you agree with what I've said?

My name is Nurdiani Latifah. I live in Jakarta – Indonesia, and after 25 years I live in Bandung. I am a media staff at an NGO in Indonesia. I have worked in this institution for almost 2 years on issues of women and peace. I have been a journalist in Bandung for 3 years.
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