WE LISTEN WE DON'T JUDGE

There is this recent but not too recent trend of "we listen we don't judge" that was everywhere on social media, where a group of girls or boys come together and say things that were meant to go with them to the grave or better still things that were not for the public hearing, parents and kids also participated in that trend and trust me it was chaotic that particular trend broke up families, scattered friendships of more than a decade, not to talk of the relationship between so many people like I said things that were supposed to be hidden from the eyes and ears of the general public or came to like because of one trend from nowhere.

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There is even a more recent trend, where people dance to this particular song, "Somebody's watching me it's my anxiety". If you ask me, in my own opinion those trends are not worth it even though you want to participate in such a trend, please be discreet about the information you want give out to the public because "the Internet never forgets" that is a very certain part of the internet, it never forgets, in fact, it never forgives that right there is a sure fact. This is not being religious or anything but you see there are trends online that I would never participate in not now not ever on my part I call it discipline, and that is because I know there are a lot of things that will go wrong or be at stake when I open my mouth to say things that are meant to be kept in the secret on social media all because of the cruise. I have done a lot of bad things in this life, although not too awful, just minimal, but you see me coming out online to say things freely like the air, "can never be me".

The one trend that caught my attention, was one of them said one day she was high on alcohol and tried to rape her friend, which was meant to be a conversation between two mature adults but no they decided to bring it to the social media. One said the day her friend's mum came to the house she wore a short skirt so she (the friend) dropped a mirror just to check out the mum's bum and the others shouted we listen we don't judge, I don't know if all these are true or they are playing but who raised these kids (Esther calm down). The other said she had once stolen offering and tithe money in church, the other talked of how she made out with their bolt driver. I am not here to judge or condemn them for all the crimes and atrocities they committed cause they are humans but my main concern is why bring it to the Internet and the funny part here is there is something employers do these days, I think I have had a first-hand experience once from a very close friend, employers of labor now check out your social media handles even without your notice to run a background check, now how do you defend all these things you all have said online.