The joy of experiencing one’s every first (first love, first kiss, first relationship, first salary, first date, and many more firsts) is a joy like no other, especially if it’s a mind blowing experience and not one filled with regrets and sadness. In the relationship aspects of FIRSTS, sharing our firsts with someone who we truly connect with, love unconditionally, understand deeply and care deeply about is a great privilege and a once in a life time experience, maybe not for you but for me it definitely is…
I remember my firsts like it happened yesterday. Relationship wise, every of my firsts experiences were memorable and unforgettable, including first kiss and first love, and this is because it happened with someone whom I loved and still love deeply. I remember writing a post talking about my first kiss and how it happened a couple of years ago, this should be in my first year of joining the hive blockchain. I remember vividly how I shared the whole experience with you all in my post that day. How it happened, what lead to it and how i felt after it happened was just an experience i will never forget. It was a great experience with a beautiful feeling and that too with a wonderful soul…
I think i have also talked about my first crush in one of my posts in the past, i didn’t really go too deep about it but i definitely know i have made mention of it in the past in one of my posts. Let me quickly give you guys small gist about it. I will definitely be leaving you guys in suspense, so you can choose to skip this part of continuing reading for something more interesting, hehehe…
My first real crush happened to be on my senior in high school. Oh yeah, i know you must be surprised to see something like; my first real crush. Honestly, the reason why I termed it that way was because back in high school i had too many crushes, and this was because i was mostly attracted to girls with brains and moderate beauty, and then we had quite a few of them in high school, which was why i was crushing on different girls everyday. Funny enough my crush on them doesn’t exceed that week, and that was because i was never serious enough with them. This was before i saw her, i saw her that day on the assembly ground looking all beautifully and neatly dressed in her uniform and i was like; OMG 😱. I couldn’t get my eyes of her…
I didn’t know she was my senior until after the assembly was over, it was at this point I realized i had aimed to high 😂, i was crushing on my senior. I did all i could to get her to notice me, it was definitely hard at first but then I ended achieving it. Did it work out between us, that’s a question to be answered another day…
I am not talking about my first kiss again, if you want to know about it then you will have to scroll through my posts, i think 2-3 years worth of posts, it should be laying somewhere in between my first and second year of hiving…
When it comes to expressing myself to someone I truly love and care deeply about, i don’t hesitate to express myself both in words and in actions, i do both, just to show you how sincere and genuine i am with you. This has been me since the very beginning, when i know what i want, i don’t hesitate to work towards it, if it works out then it’s fine and if it doesn’t then i try my luck else where…
I don’t take matters of the heart for granted and that is why my first relationship is still alive till this very moment. This is our 4th year of being together, soon to be fifth. A lot has happened in the last four years and the ship is still sailing…
In summary, this ship would have sank a long time ago if the feeling wasn’t mutual or if both parties weren’t pushing hard for it to work and no effort is being made to see it through…
In conclusion, my very first relationship is still sailing and i am ready to go with it wherever it sails to, provided the mutuality of our feelings is not severed…
NB; all images are mine…
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