It is important to have a go-to person in life, a go-to person for advice in terms of finance, a go-to person for advice in terms of health, and a go-to person for advice in terms of other matters of life. Everyone in your life has an area or perspective of life different from you and sometimes you will like to pick from them.
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For a person like myself, I have realized that I have friends and family who I trust more when it comes to some aspect of life. When it comes to finances I have a friend of mine who is so good with his financial life, sometimes I go to him before any financial decision I take, mostly he advises me about the crypto market, what to buy when to buy and how to buy, we could talk for hours whenever we talk on the phone, this friend has a vast knowledge of everything but I trust him more when it comes to financial advice.
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The second friend I will go to is advice for when I need to take a loan or when I want to make a repayment plan. He is also my go-to person whenever I am bored and need someone to talk with, most of our conversation is a 70:30, when I don’t feel like talking but I want to have a distraction, I just call him to listen to whatever he has to say to me.
Apart from the above two friends is my friend who I call for legal advice, if I want to know what the law says about something or need legal backing for something, I call my guy for advice, this friend is also talkative and friendly to everyone if I need someone to accompany me to some place, he is the first person I think about.
While my friends are mostly my first dial, my sister is mostly my business partner and also my partner in other matters, if I have a business idea, she is always there to execute it. She is more of an industrialist which has made my relationship with her even better daily.
All being said, I still prefer my issues private, but only in cases where I cannot deal with them privately, this is when I seek advice or assistance from others.
I have learned to absorb all challenges I face, for the ones I can tackle myself, I deal with them. In my experience, I have learned that people don’t care about how you feel about anything, whether you are sad and depressed or even suicidal, as a result of this knowledge I have tried to be the opposite of that, I give listening ears to people, whenever they are in need for someone to talk to or they are up for advice, they always come to me, I am the go-to guy to people close to me, they usually come to relieve themselves from the burdens of their heart.
I will always advise people to talk to someone whenever they are down, not having someone to talk to or someone who will listen to you has been the cause of many suicides. It is difficult to be alone.
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