Building yourself first is one thing I will always tell people around me... We are just like I tools, we are not useful unless when used to perform a particular task which we are good in and that's just how human being are. What matters alot is what you bring to the table. What are you made of? It is always hard and difficult to just accept an individual with nothing to offer and that's the thing we face in the society today. In a way, I summary the whole thing that concerns what you bring to the table and that you didn't bring to the table with few words which is, "Focus on Building That which can never be taken away from you." Yes! Majority of us today focus on what can easy been taken away from us and neglect the important aspect of Life, which are things that will be with you and no man has a say over them. Just like you are reading, you will be wondering what is he even talking about? What do he mean by things that can not be taken away from you? Yes! There are things that come rain come sun it can have come to stay with you and can't be taken out of you. And those are the things we should focus on building perfectly first over others..
Many People neglect themselves, most don't care about themselves in particular, although everyone have their own reasons for any behavior or act he or she is putting up. In as much as that self building is also important to that and accept as our top priority in life.. From the age bracket 18 to 25 years, there are things they should focus more which I call self building. This is a critical age of someone that if you miss any opportunity to become great it might be gone for life or maybe realized late. Focusing more on building character your behavior and approach towards others matters a lot, and individuals between this age bracket find it difficult to focus on these things. At this age brackets you want to become rich, you want to make it in life, this is the age bracket where you have your different goal and dreams plan on how to achieve them and if time is not taking you forget to build yourself. This is a point where you build both self-confidence, Self esteem, in fact yourself concepts. This is a crucial part in life of every individual many people where they are today is that of them building on those things that cannot be taken away from them.
There are many things that cannot be taken away from you, so chill, then let me mention few to you!.
Self Skills: Any Skill an individual have to it's name or self stays with you anytime, anyday of your life... For example, in this modern world you went to apply for a job and someone else is also applying for the same Job and you happens to be more experienced in that field that the person what do you think will happen?? The establishment want to grow and they will love to employ someone who will add value to the company. And in a situation there it's a a modern established and you have different digital skills like graphics designing, Coding and Programming. Come on, think about it, if you are the one in position of enjoying staff's will you love to miss that opportunity, you see that answer is No!.. Self Skill have given you an opportunity to get a Job first other Will be considered. Self Esteem and Respect: Valuing yourself and for others to value you, then you must first place a value on yourself, because the Igbo will say "what you call your dog, is what it answers". Self Intuition is also very important to look out for while building Yourself. Just like I mentioned earlier, Your character, your behavior, Your mindset, Thought, Believe and Uniqueness etc are things that cannot be taken away from you when you have them and build them properly.
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