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We often step into a battle that is not with anyone outside, but with ourselves inside. This battle is the most difficult, the battle to change ourselves against our own will. In order to fulfill the expectations of society, family, or close people, many people forget to look at their own wants and needs. But to be honest, the change that does not come from the mind is never permanent, but rather the inside slowly starts to drain away.
As children, we often follow our parents' decisions, what to study, what to do, how to be. They certainly want the best for us, but they cannot always understand what is in our hearts. And that is when the mental conflict begins. We want one life, but we are forced to follow a different path. Many people suddenly decide to change themselves due to the pain of a relationship breakup, some due to pressure from society, some to cover up their own failures. But the question is, is it really possible to be good in such a change?
To change yourself, you first need to know, what do I really want? What do I like, what do I enjoy doing? If we do something by conquering our own desires and keeping our desires secret, then it is a responsible act. It does not bring peace or success. I think a person might experience life from a different perspective if they learn to make their own judgments and genuinely comprehend their own good.
If we have to make a change, it should be from our own mind, from our own love. Only then will that change make us a better person. Have you ever tried to change yourself against your will? How was your experience? You can comment below.