In our lives, we always look for inspiration and most of the time it has to come from people who have actually done something remarkable we look up to them to become something like them, and, their actions and their achievements actually inspire us to do something better for us as well and also pushing us to become better version of ourself and those people who play this particular rule in our life models that we follow they can be anything as they happened to be in our life as they might not even know us but their existence simply motivates us to push boundaries and give in a lot of efforts.
So many people it can be someone that they know who can be their own family member or even friends or anyone else just well but the thing that we actually deeply admire about people is the perception that we have for them and all of the things that they have done is something that motivates us to give in the efforts and also becomes like them and there is something quite normal but at the same time that can be a lot of such instances in life when there can be questions that can be raised on that particular choice that be a made in choosing a particular person as the role model.
There can be a lot of such moments when we feel that is it going to be something that we have taken the right decision to make that person the role model and we might sometimes rec consider our own perception and feel like we have been in a solution because there can be a lot of things that can drastically change and that is something which has happened with me as well personally which actually has made me feel vital lot difficult in that particular face because I had a men's amount of admiration,, as well as the important that I had for that person in my life was really in men because of which it was really difficult to even think that I had a wrong perception.
In my younger days, I actually was just looking up to this particular person in my life in a very good manner because he was very successful and also seemed to carry a very positive attitude around and actually made me realize that this is exactly how I want myself to be and ahead in my life it is going to be something that I would try to emitted and get myself done as there were a lot of things that I admired about that person has the leadership quality that he had was something that attracted me the most.
It used to look at me like it was something that was completely the master of life and all of the achievements as well as the energy that they possessed was something that was a kind of definition of success for me and that is something that I wanted to make myself the same as well and also feel the same amount of confidence that particular person use to feel when dealing with anything in his life. The way he used to live his life became the vision for me to pursue my life as well and that also became the definition of success.
However, as time passed there were a few cracks that started to appear as I looked up to this person initially it was something that I did not consider ch because there can be a lot of misunderstanding and also the fan that not every person is going to be completely perfect there will be something that might be certain aspects that are never going to be in the way that they could have been and that is why I actually did not take it as seriously but these things grew much stronger.
It was very difficult to even think that the perception that I had about this person was not correct and it was really a big struggle because everything that I believed in my life was something that I started to question myself and it was very difficult to even think of that person in a different manner and it was really a very difficult face in my life because I had to completely shift my perspective in a whole different manner which it was never going to be something that I even thought even a couple of months ago.
It was a very uncomfortable feeling for me and I slowly started to disconnect myself from this person because something was missing in that person that attracted me towards him and that is something that made me realize that role models are often going to be people with their own thing that we might not even like after a couple of time but at the same time we should not completely focus on imitating someone and just try to pick the things that they are doing better for our own self.
This experience taught me a lot of life lessons as well because of the huge importance of looking at things in a different completely devoting ourselves is something that is going to be very much necessary as we also need to realize that the image that we have built of someone might not be permanent and we should always leave some space for changes and that is going to be the way which is going to be very much realistic is well and also not going to hurt us when things go something else.
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