When you find it difficulty to forgive, you will suddenly noticed that your own happiness is taken away from you. Peace also disappears. And no matter how hard you try, you can't get your peace back until you do the right thing.
Welcome back to my blog and do enjoy your stay with me here. When it comes to forgiveness, it is sometimes is very difficult to do because the offender may not be ready to show any remorse. It is easier when their is a remorse. But without any remorse it doesn't come easy. But the issue is you yourself. If the offender is not ready to show remorse and you refuse to forgive because of that, you will still discover that you are still hurt. That fellow who has caused the problem may not even be aware of what is happening to you.
Sometimes, the offender does not even know that you are hurt. And that is why he/she may not show any remorse. But for me not to forgive and strongly hold grudges against that person can only be compared to a man taken substance with poison and then you are expecting another person to die because of the poison you have taken. That sounds odd, but that is what we have been doing. We keep hurt for a long time, hoping that the other person will fall and die. But on the contrary, it is the person that takes the poison that will die. Poison can only kill the person that takes it, not another person who never took it.
The reason for us to forgive is so that we will have peace. But if that is not done, we will end up hurting ourselves and not the one that offended us. Let us learn to forgive for the good of every one. If we deny the other person forgiveness, we also deny ourselves peace of mind and happiness. But comes with happiness.
Do have a blessed day and take care of yourself.
Good bye 🖐️