Failure is you being below standards placed by you, your parents, your society, or your country.
For a righteous man falls seven times, he still rises again.
You are not a loser for failing. If you do not fight your private failures, then you should expect a massive external one. Failures make us men of honour. Failure makes you humble, and you should learn from it. There are times in my life where I see some people trying to see my flaws… just only to mock me. Head straight, and I don’t see them. I failed, yes, I failed, and so what? There is nobody above failure. Look at Antony Joshua. He failed in the ring during one fight, but he went for a rematch and won. Just because it's not your day today doesn't mean it can't be your day tomorrow. Trump lost the election once, and with the help of Americans, he is back on his feet. He is the president of America. He is trying to make that country great again. Let me talk about the impacts that I have made. Many people feel that it is the end of life for failing, but I tell you that it is not. It is just the beginning of it. Fight for what you deserve… Fight for your name, fight for your generation, fight failure daily, learn from them, and you will be flying.
Make God your pilot, and he will guide you. There are people who have journeyed through hell with smiles… They have had private failures, but that is not what defines them. You should not look like your problems, guy or girl, you have got to stand up. Your husband does not define your standard; you can create yours if his standards are not working for you. We have different learning conditions, we have different goals, speed, etc. Don’t aspire to make a living; inspire to make a difference, like Denzel will always say. See, baby girl/guy, you have got to be the difference; failures do not define you.
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