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Failure, to me, is not meeting the demands of an entity, society, or organization. I now understand why students are afraid of failure. In fact, not failing often shows the level of preparation you've made toward achieving progress.
Muhammad Ali’s definition of failure—like in his push-up challenge—differs from that of other people or entities. His standard was unique, and that’s what made him exceptional.
Which is easier: failing privately or publicly? Why?
Private failure is easier. But if not addressed, it can eventually lead to public disgrace. Like the saying goes, “Charity begins at home.” Before I can pass an examination, I must have started preparing a long time ago.
Failure is inevitable in life, but it’s also what builds us up. Private failures tend to be easier to correct because they are small and can be handled by you, your coach, or your mentor.
Muhammad Ali said he only started counting his push-ups when they began to hurt—that’s where most people give up. But he set his own standard to avoid public failure. So yes, failing privately is easier and more manageable.
Have you ever avoided trying something because you were afraid to fail?
Yes, a lot.
I’ve avoided things simply because I felt I didn’t have the manpower, capital, or intellectual strength. So, I quit before even trying. One example is when I gave up fighting for what’s right in my community because most influential people didn’t support me. It wasn’t that I didn’t believe in the cause—I just feared I wouldn’t succeed alone.
Have you ever avoided trying something because others might see you fail?
I don’t think so.
Currently, I’m someone aspiring to study Medicine and Surgery, and I don’t care how many times I fail. I don’t care what people think of me. Arnold Schwarzenegger once said that it’s good to fail, and I believe failure is part of the ladder to success.
What do you think helps someone overcome their fear of failure?
Despite not gaining admission into Medicine and Surgery myself, I’ve helped many others achieve it. Failure is not the end of life—it’s a teacher. Learn from your failures.
My friend once gave up on pursuing Medicine and Surgery, but with my help, he eventually got in. That’s something I’m proud of.
Fight for what you deserve. Never stop fighting.
Fighting!
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