Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu.
Hello my dear friends.
I am @rasel72. From #Bangladesh.
We face reality every moment of life. What we do not imagine in life, at some point we see that moment happening to us. The thoughts we did not even imagine, we may be getting used to doing again and again.
Yes! This is the story of real life. When we were young, we all dreamed of becoming doctors, engineers, policemen, and so on. But at the end of the day, can we even grow up and realize that dream? No, our lives change every second and take us to a place that we could never have imagined.
I too have not faced the real reality for so long. In the last few years, I have been able to understand reality more and more, maybe I will understand more in the future. Since I have finished my education, the world seems different. How good my previous college life and school life were.
Today, I will share with you some of the realities of my life. Many of you may know that I have joined a new job from the 1st of last month. As a result, I also have to stay in Dhaka. But the problem is that after searching a lot around the university where I got the job, I couldn't find any mess to stay in. I wanted to take a room again, but the rent of the sublet rooms is very high and then I have to cook and eat alone, so I didn't take a room.
I was thinking about what to do. Because, I have to work, I have to stay somewhere. Finally, my cousin said that I should stay at their house for now and go back and forth. Then we will find it. My brothers live in Savar, Fulbaria, and my job is in Mohammadpur. It takes about 1 hour to go to the job. It will take 2 hours to get there.
There is nothing to do, I have to accept it and stay for now. On the 30th, I went to my brothers' house. My uncle's two brothers live there. Two people were in a room for about 10 days, because the older brothers have taken a room, so they can move in on the 1st. In the meantime, I have gone and moved out. That means seven people will now have to live in one room.
Although on the 1st, there will be two rooms when the older brothers move in. My brother is also looking for a room for me. If I get such a room, I will also move in. To be honest, this is my first experience of living like this. For the first two days, I struggled to go to and from the office. Then the older brothers took the room. Then I started living in the older brothers' room for now. My single bed was on one side of the room and the brothers' beds were on the other side.
For the first few days, I was very shy, I had sisters-in-law, my brother had children, and I was living among them. But I didn't do anything. In fact, life is where you have to adapt. Otherwise, you will get into trouble. My elder brother told me one thing on the first day, "You can never do anything in a hurry after coming to Dhaka." There is actually a practical side to the saying.
To be honest, although it is difficult to stay, other problems do not occur, such as cooking and eating all the work myself, I do not have to do any of these. My sisters do everything. I just eat and drink and go to my work. I hope I can adapt very quickly.
I have some problems, it is from my messy life, I can't sleep if there is light, I can't sleep if someone is watching a movie on the phone with the loudspeaker next to me, and many other problems like that. That is why I always tried to stay in a single room. Then I used to stay alone more because of the migraine problem. But now that is not happening. Although I ask my brother to look for a separate room for me.
At this stage of life, I also faced this reality. Did I ever think that such a day would come in my life? But look where we go by the pull of fate.
Anyway, I shared some realities of life with you. Everyone stay well and healthy. See you again with a new post of mine.