¿Qué debo dejar ir?/ What should I let go o?f (ESP/ENG)

For some years now I hear from many mouths, and I read in articles and books that we must let go or let go sometimes in some things, either for health, emotional, peace, tranquility, even for mental health, this to some extent, is very true, sometimes you have to let go, let things go, to flow if that is the case, that is the question of the week that poses the community @ecoTrain (@hive-123046), here I share the publication for those who wish to read it.

The first time I read or heard about this letting go or jumping I was not sure what I was talking about or rather, I played crazy, since I was in a relationship that was not healthy at all, besides I was clinging to her and to that being who hurt me a lot, although I must admit that I had part of responsibility since others do with you, what you allow them to do with you.

Now, I have had or am learning the hard way that there are things that are out of my control, I want things to be at my pace and for when I want, obviously that brings problems and discomfort especially with my family, especially my husband and my mother.

Of course, when things do not go as I want or rather when and how I want, that bothers me, it generates stress, worry and sometimes I even somatize. On the other hand, a few months ago I narrated in a publication that my grandmother who recently turned 99 years old, has senile dementia, for her age, it took a long time for the ailments of old age to reach her, she is also hypertensive and at some point, for me, she had a very mild stroke because from one day to the other she began to drag a leg, she could not move it properly and after that her speech has deteriorated considerably.

Therefore, although I do not want it and I know that it is natural that age deteriorates us, I feel anguish and sometimes I feel a terrible burden and I wish I could do so many things, but they do not depend on me, besides I know that in all this there is a purpose, which is probably still not clear what it is, but I can not, I should not and most importantly I will not deny my support and love to someone who since I was born has been by my side giving signs of unconditional love and an unparalleled dedication.

In this same order of ideas, I remember that once I read a phrase, unfortunately I do not remember where, that said something like the following: "we all must learn three things what things to let go, when to let them go and how to let them go", this phrase made me realize that it is not to let everything go and run away, especially because although our welfare comes first, there are situations where running away at the first time is not the solution or the right way, So depending on the situation and the implications, there are situations, relationships, jobs, friendships, in short, things that can and should be let go at once and others that should be let go progressively and even intelligently, so as not to lose friendships and important relationships in the present and for the future.

In conclusion, I would like to point out that this is my entry for the EcoTrain question of the week, I say goodbye hoping that my lines have inspired you to take action, either to let go or to stay and fight, so I look forward to your reactions in the comments box.