Most people are afraid of different things in their life and fear is a feeling that is present in every human being. Some people are afraid of storms, some people are afraid of heights, some people are afraid of disaster, some people are afraid of fire, some poeple are afraid of phobia and everyone is afraid of different things.
But in my View DEFEAT is one such thing which many people fear from. No one wants to face defeat because its human nature that always look for success. Many of the people are in the struggle that they do not face defeat in any moments of his life. But this is the only defeat that stops human being from the success because when human fears from defeat he will not be successful and will ran away from the aim he wants to achieve.
The question is, Why do we fear defeat or failure? Some of the most important reasons for fear of failure are: One is that when a person is a victim of pride and arrogance, he is afraid of failure in any field or at any stage of life because he thinks that defeat is an insult to me. Similarly, some people do not have self-confidence and because of lack of confidence they always think that i will face failure in everything.
Defeat is the only thing which every one is feared of and always to be succeed. People do not move forward for fear of defeat and they always remain unsucceed in his life. A person wants to participate in any competition but before participating fear of defeat comes to his mind, which makes reduces his confident and he became unable to participate in that contest.
Instead of fearing from defeat that person should participate and work hard for his success. Because a person is only successful when he works hard and do not fear from any kind of defeat. Once I was selected for the presentation in front of class and gave me topic for the discussion. My negative thoughts started how can I present in front of may people if i make wrong presentation there may people start laughing on me. All these thoughts of fear weakened me and i refused to give a presentation. That was the fear of defeat which hit my mind and was ashamed in front of everyone.
We should not care where we are participating, what kind of contest we are participating, we have to work hard and present our work and should not fear of the defeat. Moreover we only defeat but can try again and again at last we will be succeed.
That is why these people often choose the path in which there is no defeat. In the end I would like to say that fear of the failure causes a person to lose the best opportunities of his life because he does not enter the field of danger. Man must bravely try to reach his goal.
Hope the post will be helpful for the right answer and I tried to give my answer for what i understand. This is my entry in the ecotrain contest question of the week .
Thank you!