GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION || WHY YOU DON’T ALWAYS GET THE RIGHT RESULTS YOU DESIRE

Yesterday, I wrote about my hive experience and one of the things I learnt from the experience is that those who remain persistent later enjoys the reward.

This is similar to the famous quote, who laugh last, laugh best.

I write this post not to all Hivers out there but to myself in particular not to give up on other aspect of my life. The truth is not everything about me is doing as fine as you think, there are some things that bothers me that I do not share here.

I am quite at edge of loosing my mind because I didn’t get the expected result of all the effort I had put it. I had been in deep thoughts for days, thinking about my life and everything I sacrificed but yet all went to avail.

In order not to give up, I am using the experience learned from different scenarios of how I had stayed persistent and all ended for you. As they say in my country pidgin language: Na Who Give Up, Fuck Up

From what I learnt on never giving up towards a goal, I leave you some tips towards achieving your goals below:

1. Always question your methods toward achieving a goal: When trying to achieve a goal and it’s not working as expected, it may not be that your effort is little but your methods may be wrong.

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If you stay persistent without questioning every method you take you might end up keep doing the wrong thing and expect the right result. The truth is:

No matter the effort you put, if you keep up doing the wrong thing, you would never get the right result

This is why I said I am going crazy. I saw that I kept putting a lot of effort on the wrong method which gave me a result far from what I expected. Now I have been feeling pained in the heart and deep in thoughts for some days now.

2. Always reach out to people who had attained your desired goals: This is very important in order not to waste your time doing the wrong thing and expect the right result.

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Having a mentor to guide you would smoother the quest and guide you from errors before hand. Attaining your goals would be a lot faster and lesser effort compared to the effort you put in when doing the wrong thing.

So therefore, question your methods when you apply so much effort and yet no forth result

3. Check the Internet, meet people and read their stories: The Internet is One way to get motivated never to give up by reading the stories of people who had attained the goal you dream of.

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These stories would inspire and drive you to put in the required effort in place. Moreover, in these stories you would know the methods they put in place and move in the right course of direction.

Now ask yourself, are you applying the right method towards achieving your goals and are you applying the effort required to do so?

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