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Q. "What habits or addictions, both good and bad, have you developed and which you would like to get rid of?"
The topic above is what I'll be discussing about here today.
I've got some kind of habits or addiction that's both good and bad that I have developed without even noticing, which I would like to get rid off.
The first one I'll be talking about here is not or cannot really be classified under addiction, but I'll just call it an Habit.
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Trusting
I trust people a lot, you know why? I used to believe that everyone can be like me. I believe that everyone can be as open as I am, so being opened to others, trusting them is one habit I have and now that habit has forsaken me so many times, but still use to believe that people can still change until they take their last breath.
If you know me personally, if I'm just meeting you for the first time, and we have a well conversation, the next time I see you I'm with a friend, I'll introduce you to my friend as my new friend, that's me, because I believe that you won't want to hurt me, even though I don't know what's on your mind.
But in so many ways have they been disappointing me, I'm fed up of it and that's why if I have the opportunity to get rid of trusting people, I'll do it.
The second one I'll be talking about is
Thinking and acting negatively
I know no one is perfect but at least, there should be limits to what we want and what we don't want. There are so many times that I think about doing things that I know they are not right but I don't use to reason what the results will turn out to be.
For example, I can think of masturbating, and I'll do it until something hits in my mind and I'll stop or even until I'm satisfied, which I want to quit but I'm finding it hard to stop. But I wish to to quit it as soon as possible.
Another one can be that I'll think of going to a particular place at a particular time and then I'll get distracted by a friend and I'll forget, I might not forget but will not want to leave that friend, I don't like it, I wish to quit it.
Another one is lateness, I gate going late to important places, it's annoying, most times, it's always caused by me waiting for someone, and there are times where I choose to deliberately go late to programs or events, I don't like it, and I would like to trash it.
If you've got any solution to any of my habits or addiction, pls I'll appreciate it if you kindly drop it at the comments space.
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