Isn't it tough to choose between options, especially when both are good and you desire both of them? Life seems hard when this happens, no?
And the worse part is, you have to take your own decision. People can suggest this but you have to make the choice because whatever you choose will impact you most.
Let's see some of the things we should keep in mind to remove the dilemma and come to a point!
- Listen to your guts.
Listening to our guts may not seem a good idea but you should actually. Not because you have to make the decision what your inner self is telling you but to clear about your feeling.
- Consider the long term impact and don't be impulsive.
This one is very hard to do, but if you take some moment to do so we certainly can make a good decision, so we don't have to regret it later.
- Choose what meets your long term purpose.
Again, we don't usually give enough time to ourselves to understand what option would be best for us in future life. But we should not just fly away by our impulse or attraction.
- Write it down.
Sounds silly but right down what you need, what matters most to clear up your mind. Look at the list and it will give you a clear idea of what you need to choose.
Moreover, give yourself time to choose the best for you; no matter what we are talking about. It can be our college subject or life partner; anything. Having some relaxed stress-free time to understand the future impact, match with our life plan, and evaluate everything can always give us a better result.