Episode #01
Welcome to my ladies Episodic Room where I talk about Red Flags in a Relationship as a Lady. This is a series I came up with to help ladies realise some of the Red Flags they have in a relationship and how best they can handle them to be a better version of themselves while maintaining their relationships in a way that it doesn't affect their mental health but rather make them benefit from it and even make their partners more happier and crave for more...
In as much as life is concerned I believe that there are humans breathing and making decision on how best to live their life's, and in as much as humans are concerned, I believe that men and women come to play a part and in the case of today's topic my focus is on the red flags of a woman in a relationship, so without taking so much time let me dive into today's topic to make my clear point and some of my red flags in a relationship as a lady that somehow need to be corrected when there is still a chance for that.
First of all I would like to make this point very bold that every human get to a stage in their lives where they actually make decisions for themselves and they know exactly what decisions will affect the other person positively or negatively and so while talking about some red flags, some people might not actually agree to my point of view and I believe very well that that is the main reason why we have different perspective and different points of view and so my point of view might not match with some ladies point of view out there, but for the few that my point of you actually matches with are exactly the ones this publication is for, as they are my audiences. For the others that does not blend with it might actually have a reasonable point that I myself can learn from and so don't hesitate to drop your points on the comment section as we learn everyday and I am always excited to learn new things.
One Of My Red Flags Is That I Am Too Available
If you are very familiar with a lot of relationship tips and advices you will understand what I mean by "always being available" in a relationship in the sense that whenever your partner calls you you are always there, whenever he tried to reach out to you, you are always available and whenever he asked you about your plans of the day and when you will be free, you tell them your entire calendar without keeping him in suspense as men like suspense because that is the only thing that keeps them wondering what is going on with you and that will make him really want to know more about what is going on. Now don't get me wrong, when you are in a very healthy relationship of course you will want to share with your partner your calendar and how your day is going but always being too available is problematic as sometimes your man needs some space and you making sure you give him the maximum space while doing what you love without being panicked by that is a very big bonus as it will make him not want to lose you and once he finds out you still have your happiness intact and without him, it makes him even want you the more.
Now some of you might want to actually attack me from the point that States if the relationship leads to marriage how can one sustain such flow, but with few books I have read and with few people that I have listened to, I have come to the realisation that there are a lot of ways to actually man over this and if I want to include all of that this particular publication will not containe us and so I will make more related publications on this to address this exact point and for you not to miss out, You might want to consider following me so you don't miss out on my next publication here.
~Relationship and Marriage should be part of your journey in life, not your final destination~
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