Episode 02
Welcome to my ladies Episodic Room where I talk about Red Flags in a Relationship as a Lady. This is a series I came up with to help ladies realise some of the Red Flags they have in a relationship and how best they can handle them to be a better version of themselves while maintaining their relationships in a way that it doesn't affect their mental health but rather make them benefit from it and even make their partners more happier and crave for more...
When it comes to building a healthy relationship and trying to stabilize your mental health as no one will manage that properly for you, it is very much adviced that you take some certain decisions and also develop and build a certain mindset of maturity to know that whatever decision you take can affect your partner both negatively or positively and the same thing applies to your partner's actions as well, and today's post is the continuation of my last publication. If you haven't seen Episode 01 publication about the very beginning of this storyline, which is the part one, then I advise you go check it out when you are done here, and before I start, I will like to make a point very clear that everyone as a choice to make as an adult and for someone like me that truly cares about my fellow lady, I will advise that you take very good care of your mental health and make sure nothing comes before it, be it a relationship or marriage. So now that you have had that in mind let's get started already, shall we??
Another Of My Red Flag Is That I Expect Too Much From My Partner
It is not bad that you expect much from your partner as they have chosen their part to actually spend their life with you but at the same time you should always remember that there was a time you could literally do without them and them being in your life doesn't mean it is the end of your journey but rather let it be the process of your journey as this will help sustain your relationship and keep your mental health in one oder. In a relationship when you see that your partner is going on a very wrong direction such as trying to please other women or trying to find his way through other women, what you should always remember is that he is a grown up man and he knows exactly what he is doing and he knows what he will do that will affect you positively or negatively and for him to choose such part you should just make a decision if you are going to manage such habit or you will just let go of that toxic relationship.
It is not a bad thing to expect your partner to live right but at the other end you should always know that this man is a grown-up guy and so he knows what exactly he is doing and so he as chosen the part to really hurt you so badly then I don't see any other reason why you should be there nagging and still giving him so many chances as you expect more that will never happen. That is why I tell the few people that I have the opportunity to advise that in as much as I am still a young girl growing up and Reading a lot of books to actually help my mental state I have come to the realisation that relationship and Marriage should be a part of the journey you are taking in life, it should never be your final destination as it will lead you to depression so don't you make it your final destination.
~Relationship and Marriage should be part of your journey in life, not your final destination~
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