This year has really not been easy at all; strive to survive in every corner of life. This year has shown me so much hardship, but God has always been there good to me.
Family has always been my priority this year I remember, early this year, that I had a budget to start up a business, but suddenly, the compound where I was staying was sold without prior notice.
It's just thrown me off the balanced, business that I have planned out finished I have to pause it and start a house hunt, it was easy looking for a new house, but I was stressing way too much that I had to ask my siblings what exactly were they doing that I will go to work and then later come back to house hunt for them.
They were all giving excuses; I told them that if they didn't stand up and follow agents to check out houses, we would all be thrown out when they started looking for a houses. That stress was reduced like this u year has been family and family.
I don't think I did anything for myself this year; all the professional courses I wished to go for I couldn't, if it's not hospital bills, it's light bills, it must be something. I was physically drained, being the only one with a steady source of income.
At a point, I have to sit back and ask myself if I die with all this stress, thinking, won't my family survive. What do I do to ease the family burden off my shoulders mentally and physically, I was exhausted.
So immediately, I gathered money and gave it to my mother to add to her business to boost it up. So, the foodstuff burden will shift out of my budget. As for my brother, I have to ask him to learn any online course that will help him earn a little that will sustain him while in school.
Another person, I told them to look for handwork or a job to do as I couldn't continue to carry everybody along; thank God they all listened. I was happy, I can now rest a little.
This coming year, I am going to prioritize myself alone, nobody not even family. I have sacrificed everything for my family for the past years. I want to upgrade myself to the level I have always wanted, go for professional courses, and perfect the skills that I already have. Then, start up my business; these are my major priorities for the new year.
Just give me a baby girl treatment, and by next year, my brother will be graduating, and his online business is thriving well.
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