Virtues or defects/ Virtudes o defectos ✨ Contest #120 [EN-ENG]

Hello ladies Hive lovers, I haven't been in this community for a long time and today I decided to check the weekly contest that you always do and I found the questions very interesting, one is about friendship since February 14th is coming and the other one is about a virtue that you have that others consider a defect, Being honest I am going to answer the second question because at this moment I have very few friends and all of them are from the university stage and live in other states so friendship is at a distance and we rarely talk as we used to, friendships are there, some last and others fade away with the passing of time.

On the other hand, I want to talk about a virtue that some would consider a defect, I think most of us go through that uncomfortable moment where we think we are wrong because most people are against us, as there are also things that people say that we have a great virtue in such a thing but they take advantage of us, so the virtues can be good and bad, depending on the perception of each person.

A virtue that they consider a defect perseverance; I am a very persevering person and because of that perseverance many believe that I am bad because I can let things happen without doing anything because I expect something bigger and the thing is that sometimes it does not happen, because I just think the persevere achieves the thing is that not all the time is like that and it is a virtue that I have always be there persevering, fighting to achieve the goal but this virtue has become a major flaw in my life and I just know that I have to know how to use this and I have reflected on this since many people have taken advantage of this without me seeing it badly because I think that person can change but not all the time happens, last year I let this virtue do their thing and most of the things did not go well as I wanted. I know that this is a beautiful virtue but you have to know how to use it and not always let it take over.

The virtue that I think is a defect; Generosity is a virtue that I have and many think it is very good but I do not see it that way is a double-edged soul, because people can abuse that generosity that you have because they know it is something that makes you vulnerable so to speak, and you can give more than you can and that has happened to me a lot of times especially with family and I think that is why it is also important limits and one has to know how to put them because if they do not do with you what they want because of your generosity to give and give.

Thinking in detail about this topic, I think that you have to know how to use these virtues that can become a defect, because I think they are double-edged souls, you have to know how to use them so that things do not happen to you that you regret later, in both virtues that I mentioned I think they are good but at the same time they can be bad when we do not know how to put limits on ourselves, it is my way of seeing things today, since I made a self-evaluation to be a better person every day and that others do not abuse me.