LADIES OF HIVE COMMUNITY CONTEST #153
2️⃣ What is the most annoying mannerism or trait that a man or your partner (spouse, or boyfriend) has that you wish he could get rid of or change?
Dear Hive community members, I hope you're all well. Today, I want to discuss about the topic above of dealing with annoying traits in someone we care about. Following my last marriage, I spent time alone due to my fear of getting involved again. Unfortunately, my relationship with this man hasn't been successful.
Looking back, he's irritating traits caused me frustration. I question why I didn't see through his lies and avoid the pain I'm feeling now. One of his most annoying traits was his history of dishonesty. He lied about being single while involved with another woman, which I discovered later.
Whenever I confronted him, he became defensive and condemned me, creating a toxic atmosphere. He also lied about various topics, including his beliefs and his past story. It felt suffocating to be in this turbulent relationship.
He not only cheated but also engaged in secretive communication with other women. When presented with evidence, he became angry and shifted the blame onto me. After leaving me, he quickly started a new relationship with someone he had hidden.
His extreme reliance on pornography was another annoying trait. He blamed it on dissatisfaction with women. This addiction made it hard to trust him.
Changing these traits would take time and effort. While I'm glad to be free from this toxic relationship, the trauma has made it difficult to trust anyone. It's important to love yourself and recognize red flags in your partner.
If your partner exhibits these traits, change will take time. Be patient if you can endure it, but it's better to leave if you can't handle it. Seek happiness elsewhere.
