@LadiesofHive Community Contest #248 questions for the week are:
1️⃣ What is the most dominant color in your wardrobe/closet? Was it a conscious choice, or did it just turn out that way over time? Feel free to give us a sneak peek!
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2️⃣ Would you consider remarrying or having another partner if you are a 71-year-old widow/widower? Why or why not?
For a long time blue color dominated my wardrobe, somehow I would always get attracted to blue color clothes and end up buying them. They were in all shades and prints of blue, dark and light, but navy blue was again dominant in this also. And then black and white followed blue. At one point I did realize that I need to have more colors in my wardrobe, and after that every time I went shopping, I strictly told myself, no more blues, blacks and whites and I would go for other colors.
Yet there are times when I do end up buying them. As of now my wardrobe looks very balanced with multi colors and I have no one dominant color in it. It's a conscious choice to turn it around from blue, black and white. It's always fun to experiment new colors and vibe in them.
If a widow, would I marry at 71?
100% no, who wants headache at that age. That's not the age when I want to start tending tor pleasing someone. It would be almost the end years of my life and having a new partner at that age means again having to worry about fulfilling each others expectations.
I can have a companion of convenience, who can be around when needed, but not a husband, for who I have to worry what he will eat and wear.....haha. No more new baggage at that age for sure. A companion is good, because there will be times when I may need someone to hold a hand and be by myside in some particular situations. And with my personality, my space is very important. I do not wish to have anyone new coming in to my space at that stage of life and interfering in my business.
Marriage always comes with expectations and there is commitment required in it and at the age of 71 I would not want to fulfill anyone's expectations or get into any new commitments. I would be happy to live all by myself on my terms and as I mentioned a companion would be good when needed. At that age, the person I would be marrying would be equally old, by any chance if he develops any health issues then for the rest of my life I will have to be miserably taking care of him. Who wants all of that headache at that age. Right?
Not only as a woman I have this thought, if I would have been a man, I would still have the same thoughts, at that stage in life I would not want to start all over again in a new relationship and at the same time it would be nice to have a companion of convenience.
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