Hi hivers, how is your weekend going so far? Hope you're enjoying every bit of it.
I'll be participating in this week's contest, the topic is actually what I've been thinking while growing up, and I would love to share my own perspective with you.
The topic: What are your thought of a ''house husband" would you be okay with a relationship where the roles were reversed.
It's actually interesting though, most times I do thought of it how would it be if the roles were been reversed now I have to answer it.
If I understand the question very well it means, like man carrying out the duties of the woman, like a full time house husband, that doesn't go to work, doesn't have any skill, doesn't work from home also, he is just there.
Well as a woman I would feel like am been assisted of my responsibilities and duties at home, in as much I would love my husband to be of an helping hand to me not to the extent of staying at home and allowing me to work and feed the home. That's very big NO.
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I don't think I can be able see my husband doing all of the house chores at home, and I believe such men won't be given the respect they deserve from their wives and i still believe outsiders won't give him that respect he deserves. How about the children, what lesson would he be teaching his children, cause children learn a lot of things at home before going to school.
I believe as the wife I might accept the responsibilities at first, but as time goes by,definitely someday i'll be tired of it, i'll be carrying face always. He can make me happy by going to work, i will be proud of him, and can be able to show him off like other ladies do.
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As a woman I would want my husband to be the busy type, travels for weeks then come beck home to me, I just want to have that feeling that i've missed my husband when he travelled, instead you sit at home with me what if am not working, what will we be doing at home together. Cause I've come to learn that marriage is not like relationship where you and your boyfriend or girlfriend don't stay together, you only see each other when you feel like, but in marriage you see that person everyday. So working will keep him busy, and will also allow the wife to miss her husband for some hours.
I think working keeps a man busy, keeps his head straight by that I mean being straight forward in life, it gives him focus in life,he knows where his going in life to make his family better. He will be able to see the real world, sitting at home you don't see anything you only see the four corners of your house but when you go out you realise there is a whole world out there, and you'll be open to opportunities, ideas and you learn new things also.
So I wouldn't be okay with having a relationship where the roles are been reversed.
Thank you for reading.