The three major values that has guided my decisions as an adult is compassion, responsibility, and integrity.
This three values has shaped and impacted my life decisions in many ways.
This values are very important in decisions making, people should be guided by these values, because it makes your decision favourable, acceptable and beneficial to people around you.
Here is why my decisions are guided , by compassion, responsibility and integrity
Firstly, integrity connotes honesty and truthfulness, and it's very important that our decision should be guided by honesty and truthfulness.
The moment a decision I want to make lacks integrity , honesty, trustworthyness, betrayes trust and mislead others , it's a NO to me.
Intergity is a great value, that guides me through my decisions and way of life.
Lies and dishonesty are very wrong foundations to build a decision or choices.9
Intergity is one value I consider before making a decision in every aspect of my life, because it builds trust and confidence.
Intergity guides and shield you from future problems and misunderstanding.
It prevents you from chaos and provide absolute peace in whatsoever you indulge in.
So intergity is a major values that guides my decision making.
The best foundation to making a decision is intergity, because it guides you through and builds trust not just to yourself, but others around you.
The second values I consider during decision making is how my actions affect the people around me and those far from me , which is compassion.
Trying not to be selfish about my decisions, because most times the decision you Make, affects the people around you in so many ways and ignoring the effects it has on other individuals is actually a mean and selfish act.
I ask other people, my friends, neighbors, family about their opinion, just trying to see how they are being affected by my decisions, not because I need their consent, but because I care about the effects the decision will have in their individual lives and we'll being.
Being compassionate and considerate of the effects a certain decision have on others is a very good value, that shows how kind and good you can be.
Thirdly, is Responsibility, it's funny how people make decisions and at the end fail to take responsibility for their actions or consequences.
It important to know that for every decision, you make there is always a consequences and the ability to face those consequences and be accountable for the decision you made.
Personally, I feel putting the blame on other persons over a decision, you made is really a bad move, I take responsibility of my actions, face the consequences and amend mistakes when necessary.
Being responsible is one of the core values, that guides me in making major decisions in my life.
Being responsible guides your decision and choice, also makes you very careful in decision making, because you would be held responsible.
In this prompt we are also asked to state the particular value that we find difficult to practice consistently.
Among the three core values mentioned, the particular value that is difficult to practice consistently is being responsible.
Most times the fear of shame makes people not to be responsible for their actions, that's something that have happened to me , so I can say being responsible for my actions is quite difficult to practice consistently, most times I shift blames , especially when I feel it wasn't my fault, but I'm working on being responsible for my actions.
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