Well , life wasn't perfect from the very start of my life. Since the age of 6-7 your identity highlighted that you are a girl, don't do this and that, and you should behave under certain society's rules and regulations. Apart from being a girl nobody openly talks about how you should stay happy and how you can also dream big just like boys in our society.
Many times women of our society tries to break certain streotypes of our society, but their personalities and their characters were held under serious allegations like "oh my Gosh look at that she is a girl and yet she is riding a bike" . This the mere example of some certain plagued views. Rather than feeling proud or happy they execute your inner core in a way that you will think that maybe you are committing any kind of sin. Likewise in other fields, girls being judged without any face to face conversion. Anybody can judge you while you are walking on the road alone. Well all of the things i am saying i mean it. There are some elite socities where being a girl is ok you can move and have fun and can even walk alone without worrying about what they will say to you. But here in our average and middle class families or societies being girl is outrageously risky. Why because a girl should be bound within walls.
As woman we meant to see limited dreams. All in all it is quite frustrating to even survive over here.
I felt like i am living in Victorian period where girls were only meant to get married and have kids, a woman without goals and have urge to love her dream. The only problem is that i am born in a streo typical society where i can not be myself. Even though i have bigger dreams i can not pursue. It's a tragedy that my parents and my brothers fully supported me but there is this society who can't accept the way i think or the way i dream. I vocalized myself in the past but ended up in distress and unwanted sorrow. It's so difficult to move forward when you saw your brothers and father powerless in front of society.Let alone knowing the fact that they are supportive.
I always wanted to get higher education 🎓. In order to get admission in UK 🇬🇧 i have done hard work , but when it comes to travel ✈️️to UK , the perception of other people inflicted upon my family. The relatives and society put presure on my family, she is girl, how can she survive alone, she might rebel against you as she is going alone and stuff etc. My dream of studying abroad just vanished in the nick of time. But then my father believed me he said i will send you to UK or any other country where you can be yourself and can fulfill your dream. Little did i know after one month he passed away leaving me alone. He was one of the kindest soul who trusted me even when the world was against me and my dreams. I didn't lost my loving father only , i lost my best friend.
Now here i am still trying to prove myself in a male dominating society. Yet i am trying to be brave in order to survive. I am quite aware from the fact that not all of the men likes to suppressed their female counterpart. And i also believe people like my father can change this hysterical society, where men can do anything and women is confined within the walls. I wish a better world to everyone. At the same time i will continue my journey towards my success, towards my dreams. Have a lovely healthy life everyone