A question of dignity ...

We have to set limits...

A couple of years ago something happened to me at the University where I am a teacher, a coworker was shouting at the other classmates, that is, with a high tone of voice, hitting the words for no reason, I didn't stay silent and confront him from the beginning, I had to set limits from the beginning.

When you set limits, others make you believe that the villain of the movie is you. You have to be very careful with this, it's not that you are the bad one, you are respecting yourself, it's a question of personal dignity, of value, it's like saying... That's enough!... Enough is enough!... Don't fuck with me anymore.

Then, ... It happens that the one who benefited from your hero attitudes that also made you suffer, it is no longer convenient for you to change, or to say no, much less to think of setting limits because you are already tired of so much abuse.

Do you know why? Well, because you're putting them to work on themselves, which they probably won't do, but that's not your problem. Do you know what your problem is? It is to get your peace, your tranquility, your serenity. It's already good! And enough is enough! Without phrases that we can implement every day to set healthy limits.

Personally, I put it into practice, to escape from this type of character, the transgressor of limits.

Especially I do it when you feel that you are collapsing, that you are not afraid to get away from everything and everyone, starting by getting away from social networks where there are a lot of transgresses limits, I send them all to hell.

A few weeks ago, I took a few days accompanied by my husband in a cottage of a relative, who is traveling out of the country, in fact there was no good internet signal, to be able to communicate with my children and other punctual things, for example to write my daily post on Hive, for this, I had to go to the main square of the town where we were to look for the Wifi signal 🛜 to be able to write and send my publications among other personal things.

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Don Quixote of La Mancha once said: "The human being is enslaved by luxury and vanities, pursuing riches as if he found happiness in them. But he does not realize that the more he has, the more he fears losing it, and in that anguish true happiness escapes him. Because happiness is not in gold, nor in opulence, but in the breeze that caresses the face, in the sincere laughter of a friend, in the bread shared with gratitude to find." The simple life is the greatest treasure. 🫂

This Don Quixote is very wise.

Continuing with my story and taking a bit of the Quixotic life... In those days nothing stopped me they were days of rest, of re-potentiating and above all of reflection where I said to myself, Janitze, you can't go on like this, you have to change things, because if you go on like this you're going to die. Please take care of yourself, because your family needs you well.

Janitze 🌹