Seeking help, is not giving up...

Today I bring you a reflection that comes from the heart. Because I have really been ridiculed, and I have lived this at different stages of my life, since I was a child.

There are definitely people who want to make you believe that they change, but no. They end up changing the costume, but the essence remains and they try to fuck you up by leaving you standing badly in front of others and this has happened to me in all my areas, where I develop.

But let me tell you something. If there are no actions to accompany the words, it ends up being just appearance.

The only thing that really impresses me in a person is his genuine kindness. I don't care about appearances, material or external achievements.

What I value is a noble heart, honesty and good intentions.

True greatness is not measured by what you have, but by the light you share with others. In a world where many things are ephemeral, the essence of a person is what really leaves its mark.

The only thing I value about people and that really impresses me is genuine kindness, I don't care what people have, the way they dress, the place where they live, even you have a car or not, and if they have it I don't care what brand of car they drive.

What I do greatly value is a noble heart full of good intentions. That's what really for me, deserves my respect.

Sometimes they applaud you on the outside, while you're breaking down on the inside.

Look, many times in the midst of our best moments, pain arises, puts us on our knees and even opens our eyes. Right there, when everything hurts, our truth begins and, somehow, signals to us that we are not being congruent. If you feel that what you show does not look like what you feel, talk about it. Seeking help is not giving up. It is to rebuild from the real.

Many people say to you, "Now you have an attitude". But that only means that you no longer allow them to trample on you. You'll talk. You will say what you feel. Because you stopped keeping quiet to keep others comfortable. And suddenly, you're the problem. But you're not. They just liked you better when you were quiet, when you were easier to ignore. Now that you have a voice, they don't know how to handle you.

I agree, that kindness always será... The greater wealth, that a human being can have... As long as there is life, there is hope. Thanks for getting this far, it's minutes of reading to help you understand that if you can't against yourself, you must unite yourself. Be loving to you. Don't hate yourself. Look for the tendency to softness and tenderness.

Janitze 🌹