Have you ever seen someone you know and then you suddenly realize that the person seems to have it all figured out and you are just here still struggling to meet up?
It may sometimes feel like your case is worse because you see your mates driving flashy cars, living their best lives while you cannot even boost of eating three good square meals in a day.
It is not as if you don't even work hard at all. You sweat everyday but it still feels like nothing at all is working in your favor and thus this makes you downcast all the time
I just want you to know that you are doing so well
That things aren't working exactly how you want them to at this point doesn't mean that it won't work for you soon. We are all different humans with different timing. We all have our different destinations*.
That your friend, family member or even coworker made it before you, even when you started before them doesn't mean that you won't also make it just like them
All you need is patience, patience and more patience
While you are being patient, don't forget to keep working hard for yourself. Stop looking at the destination of others and focus on your own destination hoping that you reach yours one day.
To make it in life is a gradual process. If you are too fast to make it, you may just end up doing what is not humanly right and eventually loose your life at the long run.
Never do anything to shed blood or even rob people of their happiness or peace of mind simply because you want to make money quickly. That kind of money is not a good money because you have ripped people of their joy. It is very dangerous and can lead to everlasting curse for you and even for your generations.
What matters is how you end. So ensure that you end well and while trying to end well, be honest, be disciplined, be humble and above all, have a big good heart.
Sending hugs to everyone reading this, who thinks that all is not going well now despite the plenty efforts. Relax,breathe and understand that soon, you will certainly see the light at the end of the tunnel. I encourage you all to keep the flame burning.
Stop comparing yourself with others and learn to move at your own pace. It may look very slow now but then again, you may not know how long whoever you are comparing yourself with had to wait to get to where he or she is. Sometimes, you may not even see the struggles of someone but only their successes.
Your time is coming. So don't give up and stop feeling bad at your situation too.
I hope you find peace and happiness soon.
Big hug to you all and plenty Kisses
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