To have and to hold,
To love and to cherish,
Till death us do part...
Fifty-five years ago.
Early this morning, my brother shared a photo of my parents on our family WhatsApp group, reminding us of their anniversary, and I couldn't help but feel excited and thankful to God for their union, and the gift of life and health they've been blessed with all these years.
Today in history, Saturday 19th 2025, is my parents' 55th wedding anniversary!
55 Hearty cheers to Golden P. 🎊🎊
Hip Hip Hip, Hurray!!!!!
Wow! Fifty-five years of marriage is a remarkable milestone that speaks to the power of love, friendship, companionship, trust, patience, commitment, great victories and accomplishments, and above all, God's faithfulness and love.
Their union which was blessed with six children, all alive, has produced much more than that. They now have sons - inlaw, daughters - inlaw, grandchildren and all other relatives too numerous to mention. 😅
For five decades and half, they've seen and enjoyed life, not to the fullest though. Lol. Together, they've built a legacy and equally written their names in the sands of time.
Despite the good times they've shared together, this journey of 55 years hasn't been without its trials and challenges. There's been the bad times and all that comes with such a union of two different and unique individuals.
However, they still stayed together, committed in love and to their vows, going strong, both in body and mind. I'm grateful that they didn't give up, and equally thankful for not failing me.
Marriage isn't a bed of roses, you know. It takes a lot to marry and much more to stay married.
30 years ago
Even as I reflect on their marital journey together, I'm being reminded of the times God has intervened, healed, and sustained them.
I recall the time we almost lost my mom, but mercy said, "No, it's not her time yet." I shared about it before. Not only that, some years ago, she was involved in a domestic accident that almost crippled her, keeping her bedridden for months. It was a trying and tough period for everyone in my family, but we never lost hope that she'll get back to her feet again. Today, she's strong as a maze, even though she makes use of a stick, sometimes.
My dad has had his own scores of health challenges - two eye surgeries that saved him from blindness, plus another major surgery. Thankfully, all went successfully well and he recuperated well too.
These moments were a turning point in my family, a powerful reminder of God's goodness and grace in my parent's lives. Ever since, it's been a testament to God's faithfulness and I can't help but feel grateful and in awe. It's so much that I sometimes wonder why God is so kind to my family, even when it seems like we're undeserving of it. Even then, I know he once said in Romans 9:15;
I'll show mercy to whom I wish. I'll take pity on whom I wogj..
With these words, and looking back on my parent's marital journey, I'm reminded that it's been God all along, guiding and sustaining them through the ups and downs of life. Truly, God did it and it's marvelous in our eyes!
Fifty years ago
Therefore, as they mark this significant milestone today, I want to acknowledge the incredible love and commitment they have for each other. Their marriage is a beautiful reflection of God's love, and I'm grateful to have them as my parents, and also a source of inspiration in my life.
I wouldn't have learned what a valuable virtue contentment is, if I didn't see you preach and practice it, neither would I have known that "a good name is better than riches." I watched as you carried out various acts of kindness and charity works, both in the hometown, church, neighborhood and close community - all these I learned and doing my best to practice too.
As I wrap this up, I wish my Pa and Ma many more years of love, laughter, and adventure together! 🍻. 60 years is around the corner, you'll live to celebrate it in grander style. 🥰
Joyeux Anniversaire, Golden P!
Thank you for reading.
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