Hello dear readers, I'm here once again to share my reflections on life. Sometimes, there are questions that suddenly pop into my mind during moments of contemplation, and I thought of sharing my opinions on these issues with you.
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If you were to ask people around the world, it is highly probable that almost everyone has a story about life lessons to share... learning from events that happened to them in the past, events they remember. But, believe it or not, there are people who don't learn.
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However, since the title is about life lessons we forget to remember, I'll discuss those unfortunate ones that are bad, yet we never learned from them.
What's amusing is that if you ask them on the day when the life lesson presents itself, they'll say they'll remember it so they won't commit the same mistakes again. However, when the same situation occurs, they will repeat the same mistake they made before.
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It's not because they don't want to change, it's just genuinely hard to change, especially when our bodies and minds are accustomed to certain ways.
But instead of getting annoyed with them and thinking they're stubborn, let's also consider that they are genuinely struggling to change. And because we don't indulge them, let's not get tired of reminding them and recalling the events that should have been life lessons for them.
As good friends, I think it's our responsibility to always remind our friends and not just say what they want to hear when they have problems.
I have a friend who is good at side hustles, very diligent. If we talk about diligence in work, I can't match him. But now, he's drowning in debt, not because of his circumstances but because he doesn't learn from life.
He loves to gamble, dear readers. Every time he earns, he takes his hard-earned money to the casino. Eventually, even the capital for his projects is lost in gambling, leading him to borrow a new capital for his side projects.
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For years, this has been his life, waiting for the jackpot that might make him win back everything. When I asked him why he hasn't learned, he said he remembers his failures, but the problem is he's addicted to gambling.
I also know someone, a man, who is consistently being left by women for another man. The issue always revolves around money. This man works, dear readers. He's not lazy, and he can support a family.
One time he asked me what the problem was. I told him the problem is his choices in women. He should learn to choose someone who is not materialistic. I noticed that the women he usually chooses are materialistic, those who won't be happy with a simple life and want a grand one.
I'm not saying these women are bad because they want wealth, I'm not here to judge them. What I'm telling my friend is that these women are not compatible with him, and next time, if he wants someone to stay and not leave because he can't provide a luxurious life, he should choose a simple woman.
I have many more stories about people who haven't learned in life. I can't blame them because, dear readers, I also took a long time to learn in my own life.
It was really a struggle before I remembered the essential life lessons in life. I often fell into traps repeatedly until eventually, through determination, discipline, and prayers, I overcame. I now remember the negative events in my life as valuable life lessons.
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Let's not get tired of reminding them. As my mother says, reminders are medicine for forgetful people. Let's also pray for them that eventually, they will remember the lessons in their lives.
The tests in life will continue to come our way until we learn from them. It is essential for us to acquire values from each lesson that life teaches, because if not, it's like going around in circles, passing through the same points repeatedly until you remember the correct answers to life's exams.
Life has many lessons to teach. If you don't remember them, you're like a student who constantly fails every time they take the same exam. If the first time you faced a similar scenario, you failed, and most likely, if the same situation arises again and you do the same thing, you'll fail again.
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Thank you to those who took the time to read my opinion about life lessons. What do you, dear readers, have to say or share regarding this topic?
๐ฉโ๐ฎโ๐ธโ๐จโ๐ฑโ๐ฆโ๐ฎโ๐ฒโ๐ชโ๐ทโ: ๐ฆโ๐ฑโ๐ฑโ ๐ดโ๐ตโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฎโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ธโ ๐ชโ๐ฝโ๐ตโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐ธโ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐ฉโ ๐ญโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ ๐ฆโ๐ทโ๐ชโ ๐ธโ๐ดโ๐ฑโ๐ชโ๐ฑโ๐พโ ๐งโ๐ฆโ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐ฉโ ๐ดโ๐ณโ ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ธโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ฆโ๐ฑโ ๐ชโ๐ฝโ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ฎโ๐ชโ๐ณโ๐จโ๐ชโ๐ธโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ฆโ๐ทโ๐ชโ ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ๐ชโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ๐ชโ๐ฉโ ๐ซโ๐ดโ๐ทโ ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ซโ๐ดโ๐ทโ๐ฒโ๐ฆโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ฆโ๐ฑโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐ซโ๐ฑโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ปโ๐ชโ ๐ตโ๐บโ๐ทโ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐ธโ ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ฑโ๐พโ. ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ชโ ๐ฎโ๐ธโ ๐ณโ๐ดโ ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ๐ชโ๐ณโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ดโ๐ณโ ๐นโ๐ดโ ๐ดโ๐ซโ๐ซโ๐ชโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ดโ๐ทโ ๐ฉโ๐ฎโ๐ธโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐ธโ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐นโ ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ ๐ซโ๐ชโ๐ชโ๐ฑโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฌโ๐ธโ ๐ดโ๐ซโ ๐ดโ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ธโ. ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ๐ฎโ๐ปโ๐ฎโ๐ฉโ๐บโ๐ฆโ๐ฑโ ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ธโ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ปโ๐ชโ๐ธโ ๐ฒโ๐ฆโ๐พโ ๐ปโ๐ฆโ๐ทโ๐พโ, ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ ๐ปโ๐ฎโ๐ชโ๐ผโ๐ธโ ๐ธโ๐ญโ๐ฆโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐ฉโ ๐ธโ๐ญโ๐ดโ๐บโ๐ฑโ๐ฉโ ๐งโ๐ชโ ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ตโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐นโ๐ชโ๐ฉโ ๐ฎโ๐ณโ ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ ๐จโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐นโ๐ชโ๐ฝโ๐นโ ๐ดโ๐ซโ ๐ฒโ๐พโ ๐บโ๐ณโ๐ฎโ๐ถโ๐บโ๐ชโ ๐ชโ๐ฝโ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ฎโ๐ชโ๐ณโ๐จโ๐ชโ๐ธโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ธโ๐ฎโ๐ฌโ๐ญโ๐นโ๐ธโ. ๐ฎโ๐นโ ๐ฎโ๐ธโ ๐ฆโ๐ฉโ๐ปโ๐ฎโ๐ธโ๐ฆโ๐งโ๐ฑโ๐ชโ ๐นโ๐ดโ ๐ฆโ๐ตโ๐ตโ๐ทโ๐ดโ๐ฆโ๐จโ๐ญโ ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ๐ธโ๐ชโ ๐ดโ๐ตโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฎโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ธโ ๐ผโ๐ฎโ๐นโ๐ญโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ ๐ดโ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐ณโ ๐ฒโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐ธโ๐ตโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐นโ ๐ซโ๐ดโ๐ทโ ๐ฉโ๐ฎโ๐ปโ๐ชโ๐ทโ๐ธโ๐ชโ ๐ปโ๐ฎโ๐ชโ๐ผโ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ๐ธโ.