Hello friends of this great community; When you are so full of passion for your own life, for your own path, deep down no person can take away that passion for living your own existence. He already considers himself complete and therefore does not need anyone to feel fulfilled.

A lot of people don't understand this, right? I remember not long ago that I had a new project with a company, which I left because it was not aligned with my values, the thing is that I had forgotten something, not important, and one of the team came and let me go. How is it possible? Who do you think you are? How can you not feel bad for forgetting? That phrase really stuck with me, not because of forgetfulness, but because of that person's reaction.

It frustrated him a lot not to see in me the response he expected, he wanted to see me nervous, he wanted to see me upset, maybe even a little sad, and I wasn't, I was calm thinking, well, what can be done now? We are not going to waste any more time on something that can no longer be fixed, we are going to look for them and we are going to solve it, come on, next. But this person was so distraught, he kept insisting, insisting on how it was possible that I didn't have a major reaction.

And at that moment I thought, how can you keep insisting and looking for a reaction from me? So that? and in that way, it was so obvious that he wanted to see me and make me feel bad. Do you know that they enjoy seeing others feel bad? It's amazing. I didn't think twice about bringing it here and sharing it with you, because it is necessary for someone to come and remind us that no one, absolutely no one, can think of making us feel less.

Because remember that the greatest luxury we can allow ourselves, the greatest luxury, is not giving certain people the power and pleasure of seeing us react as they want, not allowing their negative energy, their attempted provocation or their own frustration to throw us off. We don't have to give them that power, that control over our emotions.

My reaction or rather, my non-reaction distressed that person even more, but it was not that I did not react out of coldness, but because it was a conscious choice to protect my peace, my energy and my focus, because in the end, every time we react in the way that the other expects, we are confirming their vision, we are validating that attempt to destabilize us, and that, friends, is a luxury that I personally prefer not to grant.

So, what I am going to teach you here today is how you can successfully develop your identity. How to achieve it? Controlling those people? No. Complaining about the new generation, nor complaining about human nature or the excessive demands on man and social pressure, right? The only thing that will be effective is to follow some steps or pillars that I will give you.

The main one is unbreakable identity. What does an unbreakable identity mean? Our identity is the foundation of everything, that is, you need to know who you are, those who do not know themselves feel incomplete and therefore need other people to feel full, to complete them. You don't need anyone. one is born alone, one dies alone.

I, for example, don't need my friends, I love my friends; You, for example, do not need your partner, you love your partner, the fact of not needing people is because I know very well who I am, that is why today I am not afraid to cut ties, I am not afraid to express what I think, I am not afraid to be who I am in front of everyone.

I'm not afraid of shyness. What is shyness? It is the fear of what another will think of me and the fear of making mistakes, of failing and that the other judges me, when you have an unbreakable identity, you know who you are, so, if a negative comment comes, it is because I do not know that person, I have never seen them, I do not know what that person has gone through in their life, so, I have rather compassion.

It is “she” who is openly showing her wounds and pain to the world. What do I have to do with that? You understand? commentary on my life from people I don't even know or admire, whose life I don't want for myself.

So you need to understand that choosing yourself is the best way to start developing, but how to choose yourself? First, take care of your body, take care of your energy, your mind, talk less about yourself and observe your actions, know yourself more internally. Write down your non-negotiable values, because if you don't know who you are, you will accept anything, you will lack limits and people constantly transgress your limits because you have never proven to have one.

You do not know yourself, therefore, you do not respect yourself and therefore you do not demand respect from others, and to do this you must know your purpose, the purpose is like your long-term objective. What do you want? Where are you going? My purpose is to make a lot of money, for example, I want to make big profits and start my business. Okay, excellent, start and fulfill your dreams.