Una de las cosas que siempre te ha molestado es el hecho de que muchos piensen que no tienes la capacidad para retener información, pero, la verdad es que tienes tu manera única de hacer las cosas, así tengas que repetir varias veces de forma verbal lo mismo, ejemplo: comprar arroz, azúcar y lavaplatos, arroz, azúcar y lavaplatos…, sí, sales de casa repitiendo una y otra vez, saleas y sondeas los precios para ver dónde están los productos más económico y al momento de comprar lo haces en el orden que se te pidió, parece absurdo, no obstante nos sorprendes al recordar donde estuviste, cuáles eran los precios, donde compraste y devuelves el cambio, eres un ejemplo a seguir tu #integridad habla bien de ti.
Creciste tan rápido que, se me hace difícil ver a este hombre que tengo en frente, recordar que fue ayer cuando se te hacia muy difícil entender el lenguaje de las personas, aun se te dificulta, no sabes cuando las cosas son jugando y cuando son enserio. Te he observado tanto y ahora comprendes los sentimientos de los demás, continuas sin acercarte físicamente, evitas aun a toda costa el contacto físico con las personas, pero, siempre estás ahí ayudando, tal vez sería porque cuando tratabas de abrazarme automáticamente te decía que te quería, te quiero, no obstante, no me abraces…, te pido mil disculpa si no fue tu motor afectivo físico, pero sé que eres una persona de gran raciocinio.
Lo afirmo, aunque era un tercero en tu vida, me toco descubrir cuando ya estabas algo grande que tenías trastorno espectro autista (TEA), me encantó, aun disfruto ser parte de tus días, de tu desarrollo #intelectual, personal y mucho más.
Existen personas en el mundo que sin importar dónde o qué, son muy importantes y vinieron a este mundo a darnos una lección de vida, existen obstáculos que coloca la vida ya sea al principio o al final de la historia de nuestra existencia, mientras que otras nacen con el obstáculo y a pesar de que muchos les den la espalda y los menos precien, nunca se rinden, lo más importante es que se enfrentan a la vida con uñas y dientes, se les presenta una traba y se sientan a observar el panorama para ver como continuar, se cierra una puerta e incluso se atascan las ventanas. ¡No hay salida!
Se detienen, respiran, se entristecen pero buscan como hacer una salida, esperan mucho de personas que marcaron su vida y cuando no consiguen nada de ellas, se deprimen, se decepcionan tanto, que dejan de tener la misma estima por esas personas, no obstante basta que salga alguien sin importar quienes sean, al apoyarlos y devolverles la #esperanza no hay nada ni nadie que los detenga, y así eres tu mi grandote, mi Jose.
Hace un par de días, con los nervios de punta, sin saber que hacer de tanta emoción nos regalaste junto a tus amigos, la dicha de verte en tu acto de grado. Nos enseñaste que no hay obstáculos que no puedan ser superados si uno tiene la determinación y la voluntad de hacerlo, con todos los desafíos que enfrentaste siendo autista, perseveraste y lograste llegar a tu graduación. Le demostraste a muchos, que las personas con discapacidades o trastornos pueden tener habilidades únicas y valiosas, nuestro deber es apoyarlos e incluso tratarlos con respeto e integridad.
Gracias por recordarme que siempre debemos buscar las maneras de ayudar a aquellos que enfrentan obstáculos en sus vidas y brindarles esperanza y apoyo. ¡Felicitaciones!
…Todos podemos ser una diferencia positiva en la vida de alguien…
English Version
I've been around for about 8 to 9 years knowing a little person who, more than one of us has given a life lesson, THERE ARE NO OBSTACLES WHEN ONE WANTS TO OVERCOME, it seems like yesterday when he stopped locking himself up, isolating himself, omitting us all, spending hours sitting in front of the computer, he didn't socialize much and when he did it on some occasions it was difficult for him to respond; When I finally managed to get close to you and get you out of your bubble, I understood that there are few things that excite you and when you like something, it excites you so much that you can spend hours talking about it, forgetting everything, laughing and even being more empathetic than we least expected.
One of the things that has always bothered you is the fact that many people think you don't have the ability to retain information, but the truth is that you have your own unique way of doing things, even if you have to repeat the same thing verbally several times, for example: buy rice, sugar and dishwasher, rice, sugar and dishwasher ..., yes, you leave the house repeating over and over again, you salt and probe the prices to see where the products are cheaper and when you buy them in the order that was asked of you, it seems absurd, however, you surprise us by remembering where you were, what the prices were, where you bought and gave the change, you are an example to follow, your integrity speaks well of you.
You grew up so fast that it's hard for me to see this man in front of me, remember that it was yesterday when it was very difficult for you to understand the language of people, it is still difficult for you, you don't know when things are playing and when they are serious. I've been observing you so much and now you understand the feelings of others, you continue without physically approaching, you still avoid physical contact with people at all costs, but you're always there helping, maybe because when you tried to hug me automatically you would say that you loved me, I love you, however, don't hug me ..., I ask you a thousand apologies if it was not your physical affective motor, but I know that you are a very rational person.
I affirm it, although I was a third in your life, I had to discover when you were already somewhat big that you had autism spectrum disorder (ASD), I loved it, I still enjoy being part of your days, your intellectual, personal development and much more.
There are people in the world who, no matter where or what, are very important and came into this world to give us a lesson in life. There are obstacles that life places at the beginning or end of our existence, while others are born with the obstacle and, despite the fact that many turn their backs on them and the least appreciate them, they never give up. The most important thing is that they face life with their nails and teeth. They are presented with a hurdle and sit down to observe the landscape to see how to continue. A door is closed and even the windows get stuck. There is no way out!
They stop, breathe, they get sad but they look for a way out. They wait a lot from people who marked their lives and when they don't get anything from them, they get depressed, they get so disappointed that they stop having the same esteem for those people. Nevertheless, as soon as someone comes along, no matter who they are, by supporting them and giving them hope, there is nothing or no one that can stop them. And so you are, my big guy, my Jose.
A couple of days ago, with the nerves on edge, without knowing what to do with so much emotion, you and your friends gave us the joy of seeing you at your graduation ceremony. You taught us that there are no obstacles that cannot be overcome if one has the determination and the will to do so, with all the challenges you faced as an autistic, you persevered and you managed to reach your graduation. You showed many people that people with disabilities or disorders can have unique and valuable skills. Our duty is to support them and even treat them with respect and integrity.
Thank you for reminding me that we should always look for ways to help those who face obstacles in their lives and give them hope and support. Congratulations!
... We can all be a positive difference in someone's life ...