Initiative: What do you remember about Dad? // My master who protects and guides my path [ESP|ENG]

Un saludo y feliz día a todos los que hacen vida en la plataforma de HiveBlog 💙 en especial a todos los que forman parte de la comunidad Holos&Lotus y también a @tibaire por incentivar y crear este tipo de iniciativas, como en esta ocasión que el tema es bastante emotivo y muy especial con una carga sentimental muy bonita porque tendremos que hablar y recordar a la vez a nuestro padre, para ser exactos, que recordamos de el, como en mi caso, que ya no lo tengo a mi lado físicamente.

Greetings and happy day to all those who make life on the HiveBlog platform 💙 especially to all those who are part of the Holos&Lotus community and also to @tibaire for encouraging and creating this kind of initiatives, as on this occasion that the theme is quite emotional and very special with a very nice sentimental charge because we will have to talk and remember at the same time our father, to be exact, that we remember of him, as in my case, that I no longer have him next to me physically.

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Aunque desafortunadamente no crecí con el, siempre sentí un lazo muy especial que me unía con el, porque en mi segundo hogar, prácticamente viví en su mayoría con mujeres, y saber que tenia esa representación o figura paterna me hacia sentir bastante segura, porque sabia que, aunque estuviera lejos, el estaría allí par mi cuando lo necesitara.

A mi padre siempre le he tenido y le tendré un cariño muy especial. Concretamente de el recuerdo su sentido del humor, una personalidad muy alegre y positiva que yo admiraba en los momentos mas difíciles. Recuerdo durante la pandemia por el covid, que aun en esos momentos, en su lucha por salvar su vida y recuperarse, se mantenía positivo y con mucha esperanza, aunque en el fondo yo sabia que no, por fuera aparentaba mucha fuerza, y así fue hasta su ultimo respiro. Para mi, años después de pasar esa pesadilla que se llevo a mi papa que aun le quedaban muchas ganas de vivir, aprendí a ser un poco mas fuerte y valiente, no perder las esperanzas ni rendirse ante los problemas por muy difíciles y oscuros que parezcan, en honor, y un legado que llevare conmigo y a la vez recordarlo siempre.

Although unfortunately I did not grow up with him, I always felt a very special bond that united me with him, because in my second home, I practically lived mostly with women, and knowing that I had that representation or father figure made me feel quite safe, because I knew that, even though he was far away, he would be there for me when I needed him.

I have always had and will always have a very special affection for my father. Specifically, I remember his sense of humor, a very cheerful and positive personality that I admired in the most difficult moments. I remember during the covid pandemic, that even in those moments, in his struggle to save his life and recover, he remained positive and very hopeful, although deep down I knew he was not, on the outside he appeared to be very strong, and so it was until his last breath. For me, years after passing that nightmare that took my dad who still had a lot of will to live, I learned to be a little stronger and braver, not to lose hope or give up in the face of problems no matter how difficult and dark they may seem, in honor, and a legacy that I will carry with me and at the same time always remember him.

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Y como no todo son cosas tristes y malas, me gusta mucho un lindo recuerdo que tuve de niña con el, yendo a la playa, ya que, eramos muy pequeños y el camino era bastante largo, sin ninguna sombra donde resguardarse, era mediodía, y mi hermana y yo teníamos mucha hambre y sed, y el, sin saber que hacer, nos dio unas uvas que cargaba y recolectaba del camino, me hizo mucha gracia porque solo sobrevivimos con eso hasta llegar, en donde ademas debíamos escalar una pequeña montaña o cerro, una aventura que nunca olvidaremos mi hermana y yo.

Es importante aprender y valorar todo lo que nuestros padres nos enseñan de pequeños, consejos, principios y valores que luego se los enseñaremos a nuestros hijos y así sucesivamente. Mi padre, fue un ejemplo de luchar y cuidar lo que deseaba, aprender a valorar las cosas y ganármelas por mi misma, amar el trabajo y ser constantes hasta escalar poco a poco a lo mas alto, el respeto y sobre todo el amor a los animales, a la vida y amable, amistosa y solidaria si esta en mis manos con los que mas lo necesiten.

And since not everything is sad and bad things, I like very much a nice memory I had as a child with him, going to the beach, because we were very small and the road was quite long, without any shade where to take shelter, it was noon, and my sister and I were very hungry and thirsty, and he, not knowing what to do, gave us some grapes that he carried and collected from the road, it was very funny because we only survived with that until we arrived, where we also had to climb a small mountain or hill, an adventure that my sister and I will never forget.

It is important to learn and value everything that our parents teach us as children, advice, principles and values that we will later teach to our children and so on. My father, was an example of fighting and taking care of what he wanted, learning to value things and earn them for myself, loving work and being constant until climbing little by little to the top, respect and above all love for animals, life and kind, friendly and supportive if it is in my hands with those who need it most.

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Nos vemos en otra oportunidad para seguir conversando e invito a todos los que deseen participar. Saludos y bendicones¡

See you another time to continue our conversation and I invite all those who wish to participate. Greetings and blessings!