Nuestra amiga @damarysvibra en su columna Integrales y Expansión, nos invita a encarar nuestro yo, como se conforma y como lo mostramos en su iniciativa Muchos Rostros y un Solo Yo. Un tema bastante interesante y sobretodo muy humano) .
Lo que somos realmente es una cosa, lo que creemos que somos otra, aunado a lo que los otros piensan que somos así como lo que llegamos a creer de los demás piensan quien somos. Naturaleza humana, una persona con esencia única conformada por un yo, con diferentes rostros o facetas.
En algún momento de nuestra vida nos chocamos con esa diferencia de conceptos sobre lo que somos o nuestro yo con la percepción de lo que otros piensan sobre lo que somos y llegamos a decir éste no soy, eso que piensas o dices que soy yo no lo es. Y quien tiene la razón.
Una vez yo misma llegué a decirme a mí misma, ésta no soy yo, porque estaba actuando de manera contraria a como lo que a lo largo de mi vida yo actuaba. Porque mi rostro o mi faceta en ese momento era totalmente diferente a lo que conocía de mí, a lo que yo identificaba como lo que soy. Pero si era una parte de mí ser, un rostro que hasta ese momento era desconocido para mí.
Mis rostros eran, alegría, ímpetu, avance, imponencia, liderazgo, valentía, espontaneidad, ira, y ante una situación de varias pérdidas que estaba viviendo, de repente era una persona sumisa, detenida y triste. No podía reconocerme así, ésta no soy yo me decía. La rabia era un impulso para yo avanzar, y ahora me hallaba llorona, sin reacción alguna hacia un enfrenta y avanza. Me costó aceptar que esos también forman parte de mi, que esa parte débil que estaba mostrando, estuvo oculta por mucho tiempo pero igual me pertenecía.
Es importante aprender a conocernos, a identificar nuestro yo principal, y los diferentes rostros que podemos llegar a ser. Considerando que Nuestro Yo no puede ser mermado y que nuestras facetas no deben fusionarse.
Amo mi yo real, con mis rostros que me gustan y me acercan a mi yo ideal, justicia, lealtad, valentía, libertad, emprendimiento, coraje, esperanza, alegría, rabia y abrazo los rostros que no me gustan pero son parte de mi yo y también merecen mi estima y aceptación, ira, orgullo, miedo, tristeza, culpa.
Ésta fue mi participación en tan aleccionadora iniciativa, invito a los hivers @indhumuki y @flores39 a que participen y nos presenten su Yo y sus diferentes rostros.
¡Gracias por leer!
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Our friend @damarysvibra in her column Integrals and Expansion, invites us to face our self, how it is shaped and how we show it in her initiative Many Faces and One Self. A very interesting and above all very human topic).
When I read the topic, I immediately remembered a series I saw some time ago, Dahmer, a serial killer, who showed himself in different ways to others, but no one would ever think that he would be capable of not only murdering people, but also dismembering them, practicing necrophilia and cannibalism. Dahmer appeared to his father as irresponsible, with addiction problems, on the other hand, to his grandmother, as a patient, harmonious, responsible person with the household chores. In his work, orderly and patient. When he fell in love, it was a great couple. Different faces but the main one impossible to imagine. This case known worldwide was of great astonishment.
What we really are is one thing, what we believe we are another, coupled with what others think we are as well as what we come to believe others think we are. Human nature, a person with a unique essence made up of a self, with different faces or facets.
Sometime in our life we collide with that difference of concepts about what we are or our self with the perception of what others think about what we are and we get to say this I am not, that what you think or say that I am is not me. And who is right.
I once came to say to myself, this is not me, because I was acting in a way that was contrary to how I was acting throughout my life. Because my face or my facet at that moment was totally different from what I knew about me, from what I identified as who I am. But it was a part of myself, a face that was unknown to me until that moment.
My faces were, joy, impetus, advancement, imposing, leadership, courage, spontaneity, anger, and in the face of a situation of several losses that I was living, suddenly I was a submissive, stopped and sad person. I could not recognize myself like this, this is not me, I told myself. Anger was an impulse for me to move forward, and now I found myself crying, without any reaction to a confrontation and moving forward. It was hard for me to accept that these were also part of me, that this weak part that I was showing was hidden for a long time but still belonged to me.
It is important to learn to know ourselves, to identify our main self, and the different faces we can become. Considering that Our Self cannot be diminished and that our facets should not merge.
I love my real self, with my faces that I like and bring me closer to my ideal self, justice, loyalty, bravery, freedom, entrepreneurship, courage, hope, joy, anger and I embrace the faces that I don't like but are part of my self and also deserve my esteem and acceptance, anger, pride, fear, sadness, guilt.
Thank you for reading!!
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