Ella tenía la creencia de que pensar en sus prioridades era egoísta y eso no es así.
No es posible querer a nadie fuera de uno, cuando uno no tiene amor propio.
Uno de los mandamientos lo estipula claramente, amar al prójimo como a ti mismo.
En este sentido, tengo un hijo de 30 años, y él tiene problemas de sueño.
Cuando estaba pequeño, que comenzó a presentar esos problemas en las madrugadas y noches, mi mamá se levantaba igual que yo. Yo recuerdo que le dije No, ve a dormir, porque en el día tu estás con él, aunque había una muchacha que venía todos los días, y es importante que descanses en la noche.
Mi mamá me decía que ella se levantaba porque yo tenía que ir a trabajar en el día.
Yo estaba más joven y la responsable era yo de cuidarlo y de trabajar también, así que dejara que yo me ocupara sola.
No fue fácil, ella se angustiaba mucho y era inevitable para ella no sentirse así.
Yo con ese trastorno de sueño que tenía mi hijo , lo que hice fue pensar que el estaba preparado para eso y yo no podía hacer nada por evitar ese trastorno, así que en la medida de lo posible yo duermo.
Cuando me acuesto pienso que el tiempo que yo pueda dormir es perfecto para mí, y el tiempo que él duerma también es lo que él requiere.
No me pongo a pensar por ejemplo, que hay que dormir, tantas horas, que si no se puede pasa tal o cual cosa, no nada de eso, el Creador, o la inteligencia superior que nos creo, sabe mejor que yo que es lo realmente importante y yo hago caso.
Todo eso no lo pienso porque yo me las sé todas más una, nada de eso, lo hago de esta manera por qué no conozco otra, hay cosas que puedo cambiar y la gran mayoría de las cosas no las podré cambiar.
"Mis pensamientos crean mi realidad por eso tengo pensamientos positivos."
Por eso elijo sentirme bien con lo que me corresponde.
Cuando trabajaba fuera de la casa, el tráfico era difícil, tenía que pasar muchas horas en atascos, y también tenía que aprovechar ese tiempo.
Como pasaba muchas horas sentada, al medio día salía a caminar al menos media hora, para compensar tantas horas sentada.
Tenia que llegar a buscar a mi hijo en la institución donde lo atendían, y cuando habia dificultades para llegar por inundaciones en el camino, siempre me animaba y pensaba que ya estaba en el lugar y ya íbamos hacia la casa.
Para que se quedara tranquilo mientras llegábamos a la casa, para darle la cena, en el camino compraba bananos, y así el iba tranquilo las dos horas que pasábamos en el carro , hasta llegar a la casa.
En la manera que mi entorno este bien yo también lo voy a estar, no hago nada extraordinario, ningún esfuerzo sobrehumano y así todos bien, no sé si felices pero no me pongo de última nunca.
"El universo siempre crea lo mejor para mí en el momento perfecto."
English Version
Here is my opinion according to initiative # 9, which this time brings us @iriswrite .
** What priorities have changed in your life over time?
I think I still have the same priorities.
I am clear on that.
Maybe because I lived with my mother from the time I was born until I was 40 years old and my mother had many virtues, and only one fault, always putting herself in the last place.
I think it should not be like that, and almost every day I told her so, because I would ask her something so that she could make a decision and she could not, she was not prepared internally for that.
She had the belief that thinking about her priorities was selfish and that is not so.
It is not possible to love anyone outside of oneself, when one has no self-love.
One of the commandments clearly states, love your neighbor as yourself.
In this regard, I have a 30 year old son, and he has sleeping problems.
When he was little, when he started having those problems in the early mornings and nights, my mom would get up just like me.
I remember I told her No, go to sleep, she said, because during the day you are with him, although there was a girl who came every day, and it is important that you rest at night.
My mother used to tell me that she got up because I had to go to work during the day.
I was younger and I was responsible for taking care of him and working too, so I was left to take care of it on my own.
It was not easy, she was very distressed and it was inevitable for her not to feel that way.
With the sleep disorder that my son had, what I did was to think that he was ready for it and I could not do anything to avoid that disorder, so as far as possible I sleep.
When I go to bed I think that the time I can sleep is perfect for me, and the time he sleeps is also what he needs.
I do not start thinking, for example, that I have to sleep so many hours, that if I cannot, this or that thing happens, nothing like that, the Creator, or the superior intelligence that created us, knows better than me what is really important and I pay attention to it.
I do it this way because I do not know any other way, there are things I can change and the great majority of things I will not be able to change.
That's why I choose to feel good with what corresponds to me.
When I worked outside the house, the traffic was difficult, I had to spend many hours in traffic jams, and I also had to take advantage of that time.
Since I spent many hours sitting down, at midday I would go for a walk for at least half an hour, to compensate for so many hours sitting down.
I had to pick up my son at the institution where he was being cared for, and when there were difficulties in getting there because of floods on the way, I always cheered up and thought that he was already there and we were on our way home.
So that he would stay calm while we arrived at the house, to give him dinner, on the way I would buy bananas, and so he would be calm during the two hours we spent in the car, until we arrived at the house.
I don't do anything extraordinary, no superhuman effort and so everyone is fine, I don't know if I'm happy, but I never put myself last.
"The universe always creates the best for me at the perfect time."