Have you ever felt like your heart cries inside you, but there are no tears for you to wipe? When you are emotionally hurt, sometimes it hurts so bad that you don't want others to see you in a weak state. It may seem a weakness, but that is a sign that you are still you, and you haven't lost your sanity.
Too many of us feel that way. There are so many people crying for help, wanting to have someone they can rely on - someone they can trust. People feel weak and get lost out of the misfortunes in life. One might feel like a burden to everyone and is miserably trying not to be one. Others might feel discouraged by the people around them. They all seek help from somebody. Maybe sympathy or encouragement could lift one soul.
But is it enough to take a lost one into the right path? What if it is the right path all along? What if it's just a bumpy ride? How do we say that everything has a purpose?
Something will grow from all you are going through, and that is you. In a situation like this, I always remember this thought. Someone might have experienced that kind of circumstance to ever think of a saying like that. To know what it was like is a blessing to share wisdom and experience with others. And with that kind of help, one can go through life without ever experiencing such a situation.
Why do we need to fail to learn from our mistakes? Can't we learn from what we do best? I remember that I have always asked these questions before. But as I've read other's stories, I thought of something. I realized that the weight of the lesson learned is more significant if it's born from mistakes. Many people who succeeded in life came from having nothing. Some of them took years to change their lives through motivation and perseverance. They never got tired of pursuing what they want to achieve. And thus, they became who they wanted to be.
If you'll think about it, it's easier said than done. Sure it will take lots of years to change your life, but the only one who can do that is you. What if you don't have confidence in yourself? Will you never make it and just stay the same? As we grow and as things change, you can never ascertain that you'll be the same. Change is the only constant in the world. Everything has to change, and nothing remains the same forever.
You might be suffering today, but the day will come when you don't have to ask for guidance. The day will come that you will look back at the old days and say, you've been strong all along.
