La autoconfianza desde mi experiencia/ Fomentando el amor propio || [ESP/ENG]💖

Hello to all the beautiful women of the tribe, it is a pleasure to be here participating in this initiative created by @nathyortiz where popio love is encouraged which I think is very important to be able to have a breakthrough in our lives.
I have met people who have from a young age that confidence in themselves, I think they bring it from home by their parents and family. I have also met other people who do not have that security that makes it difficult for them to reach that confidence either because of some situation that has happened to them, and it diminishes the fact of believing in themselves, prevents them from moving forward in life and makes it difficult for them to make decisions.

Today I am going to talk partly about my experience, I have been a person who has felt very insecure since I was very little, because of things that happened to me, I was bullied a lot for my Chinese features, for being chubby, for my shortcomings. All those things made me feel very insecure with low self-esteem, I always remember my classmates when they asked them what they wanted to be when they grew up and they all had an affirmative answer, and when they asked me I never had an answer and I felt I could not become anything.
But then I made the decision to get that security, I changed that pattern from my achievements, I was having my own successes, in my work, with my perseverance, and my will to face life, I reached a status, and that made me think "YES I CAN!". I could achieve many things. I just had to set my mind to it and keep working at it.

We are the only ones who can create this self-confidence.

How to deal with self-confidence?

I face it every day, in a practice of self-motivation telling myself the best compliments, I manage to be gentle with myself, being realistic with my abilities and weaknesses, I accept my mistakes and my failures and instead of self-criticizing what I do is to look for the positive, I give myself moments of love, I nourish myself with knowledge, I fulfill my responsibilities, something that helps me a lot is that I live with people who are positive and encouraging that is very important to me, I also create options, I like to have my mind focused on something and keep constant striving to achieve it. As I get more and more accomplished I move forward with more confidence.

What is the basis of confidence?

The basis of confidence is when you know yourself, when you are able to accept yourself as you are, when there is coherence between what you say and what you do. Confidence is an ongoing process and may vary at some points in life, you just have to keep going.

Tell me about an opportunity in which you have expressed confidence in yourself?
There are many opportunities, every time I face new challenges I prepare myself a lot to be able to build my confidence and thus be able to express it, and I have had that in many moments of my day to day, an example is when I do my art, my designs and when I deliver my work there I express my confidence making known all my knowledge, because I am sure and I believe in what I do.

In summary, be realistic with yourself, give yourself the opportunity to know yourself and when you get it, love yourself, when things are not going well look for that positive part, continue to foster that security through your knowledge and your achievements, practice self-worth by telling yourself words that heal you and make you flourish only you have the ability and strength to maintain your self-love.