How often have your specs been broken? Also, I'm not talking about glasses here! When something doesn't go how we thought it would or hoped it would, that's an example of a broken assumption that can disappoint us. Sometimes, if we're not careful, we can let our anger stay in our hearts and minds, where it can decay, leading to losing faith in God.
We are genuinely adept at concealing our disappointment. We set up a grinning exterior and imagine that all is great, yet where it counts, we are miserable, and on the off chance that we don't take care of business, it will consume us. Also, we'll soon feel like God doesn't care. Because if He thought about it, He would either get rid of this feeling or change things so that we wouldn't feel upset in the first place! During these times, it's important to remember that nothing can escape God's control. It hasn't slipped his mind that we're going through what we're going through; he can see it. Also, it's okay to be completely honest with God and tell Him how we feel when we feel powerless to deal with the failure we sense.
We all deal with disappointment every once in a while. Also, we can often get over those rare poor me moments—the hours when we wish things had gone differently. Still, sometimes, it's a bigger problem, and we feel like we're always focusing on the wrong things and asking God, Why?
This means we should know that we have control over our thoughts and can stop thinking about bad things and start thinking about the good things He has given us. As we think about the good things He has done for us and thank Him for them, we won't be able to be unhappy!
To sum up, we've talked about the following steps we can take when we're feeling down about ourselves, other people, or even God:
We should be honest with God and not be afraid to tell Him how we think. We should admit when we're wrong.
We want to spend some time with Him, just quieting in front of Him and letting His soul ease and guide us.
We focus on our ideal life, hold each thought captive, and ensure it is good and pleasing to God. We will not let evil thoughts reside in our minds.
We're happy! Dynamic praise is one of the most remarkable ways to deal with anger. Dissatisfaction and praise can only exist for a short time. As we lift our Master, even if we are still having problems with anger, God will meet us in the middle and increase our understanding by pouring out His peace. Also, when we feel that unity, we praise Him even more. The more we praise Him, the more peace He brings. Soon, the unhappy state will be gone, and happiness will occur.
In this moment, I pray that you will find honest and lasting peace. I also pray that people or situations that have made you angry in the past or even now will no longer affect you as you learn important ways to handle your feelings. Bring all your mistakes, pain, and anger to God and trade them in for the beautiful peace and trust He wants to give you.