From my experience, we can't be dreadful when we are connected to our true, fundamental selves and a source of spiritual guidance. We have an inner grownup that places boundaries on our conduct regarding hurting ourselves and others when we undertake the work that we need to do to build an emotionally connected and loving adult self.
Despite this, it happens rather frequently in our culture for people to lose touch with their authentic, fundamental nature. Because our inner Self is the repository of our innate feelings of compassion and compassion for other people, letting go of this aspect of ourselves may allow us to injure other people without experiencing any discomfort or sadness as a result of our actions. After that, the question that needs to be answered is how exactly we can break our connection with our fundamental selves.
Those persons who distance themselves from their compassion and concern often do so between the ages of two and four, according to information provided by a number of professionals who work in the field of child development. We might have chosen to be like our parents and not care about the needs of others, or we might have decided to be caregivers and handle their needs, assuming our parents needed sympathy and empathy for our sentiments and prerequisites. Both of these choices are possible. We might not have had any role models to follow to maintain our very own internal connection. If our parents chose to ignore our suffering as well as their own, we may have acquired the habit of avoiding our own and other people's feelings of vulnerability. Furthermore, should we have been misused or disregarded in any of the following spheres: physically, sexually, emotionally, or vocally, we would have limited ourselves to survive.
While some children whose parents were emotionally distant or abusive find a connection with their fundamental selves through interactions with animals like dogs or horses, others see a connection via phone calls with family members or friends with whom they have close ties. However, a significant number of children split up to survive. When in this detached condition, if individuals watch violent content on television or engage in violent behavior through video games, they may further educate themselves to numb out against feelings of concern, empathy, and the anguish of causing harm to other people.
It is also possible that children raised without a personal connection with a source of spiritual help will not be aware that we are all one.
They can only rely on their wounded selves because they lack connection with their fundamental selves and the spiritual support they receive. When people are fleeing from a damaged and angry version of themselves, that version of themselves is likely to behave furiously and violently. As we have seen, the damage that can be done to themselves or to others can be catastrophic if there is no loving adult within the organization to impose such constraints.
Although putting restrictions on the availability of firearms is unquestionably a positive step to take, it will not eliminate physical violence. We will not be able to put an end to this violence until we no longer need to learn it as young children to strengthen our hearts. As parents and teachers, we must engage in an inner bonding process to regard our profound connection with God. Only by completing our internal tasks will we demonstrate the caring and responsible behavior that our children require. We ought to be the source of the change necessary in our culture.
