Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. In this content i want to share about the mess...errr i dont know if this is a mess or not but kinda make me dizzy for today. Today is the first day of everyone goes to work and school after long weekend due to Independence day in my country. of course i bet everywhere will be totally have traffic jam. And yeah today my wife wake us up early. Far way early than usual to avoid the traffic jam. And it makes me and my son get lack of sleep of course. I just barely sleep at 1 a.m in the morning and need to wake up at 5 a.m which is i just sleep for 4 hours. And my bad habbit is when i am waking up i cannot sleep again until i feel exhausted or when night come. And of course i am very rare got exhausted from tiredness.
And guess what, it turns out that it is not just us that thinking get up early and leave early. Many people having same thought and ta daaaa still stuck in traffic jam. And yeah in the end we still late for school due traffic.
And if you see the sky you will said that it is sunny day right?
Bright shiny and yeah i felt that in the morning. But, after i arrived back at home, turns out that the rain is coming. And the rain kinda heavy tho in the morning. After some of time after i am done exercise at home. The rain stopped and the sky comes back to be clear and super hot. Weird right?
Yeah no wonder flu rampant and many people got sick.
After that i dont know what happened outside what i need to do is just locked in and start working. Time flies so fast and it is time to pick up my son. Even i dont feel hungry when locked in. And yeah too many work with no result recently and the economics kinda not good in many ways,from crypto,from real fiat, from business. And yeah kinda stress about this but i need to figure out how to overcome this situation. After picking my son, he need to learn some english word to understand the math question. I dont worry about the math since i dont know but i think my son kinda genius in math at least for me. It is his talent that can learn fast in math. And yeah if one is strong the other will weak. And my son hardly to understanding and memorize words or anything that need to memorize.
From hard learning to Soft learning, at first yep i yell at him and mad at him to make him remember correctly and not repeat over and over but yet not understanding the word. But, turns out that did not work to my son. So, after i cooling down and he started to colling down. Then i teaching him using out of the box method using my lego figure. The lesson is simple it is just 1st,2nd,3rd,etc and about the word "between","beside","front","behind","last" like that but he cannot memorize it correctly. And after he make his own world about this toy. I can said it kinda slightly work, now he can now first,second,third,and last. after fourth and after, he cannot write with correct spelling. I think it is okay just need to get used to with repetition. But, at least he know about thos front,between,last, beside,and behind. But, what makes me amazed is, he can solve series of numbers with multiple 2 and 3. Okay i admited that he is way more clever from me about this. I knew this series of number multiplication is at 4 grades. Finally mission acomplished for me with so many mentaly drain today. And right now time to pick up my wife.
And her we goes again, the rain coming again and starting to be heavy rain soon. And yeah the rain goes heavy and i got stuck in traffic jam for so long time. It need almost 3 hours stuck in the traffic jam for today and the worst part is we are wet due to heavy rain. And of course flooded everywhere. And yep we are still sick. What a heavy day today. So, lets call the day right?
When i am stressed like this i missed the cigarette. It is really give instant dophamine to my brain.
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