Yesterday I was talking about why men die early, how the world has conditioned men to suck in their pain without expressing it and if they want to express it most people will not take them seriously saying that is the reason why they are a man. This makes men receive less love and less care, which also plays a major role in why men die quickly, but we have some other things that contribute to why men die early and these have nothing to do with what they are going through This has everything to do with the state of mind.
One of the main reasons why men die early is that they choose their friends wrong. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that they are making the wrong friends What I’m trying to say is that at every stage of their life, the kind of friends they choose should change because this way matters when they are getting older. What I mean by this is that the older you get the more friends you should have and some of these friends don’t have to be in your age bracket, Most times they have to be the people you are older than.
The younger the better
When you tell people about making friends with somebody younger than them some people believe that you are trying to introduce them to people who will disrespect them. Most times is not always like that, When you make friends with an intellectually younger person, they know that you are older than them, and they will give you your respect. The reason why you are making friends with somebody younger than you is not because of the respect it is because of your state of mind. The older you get the more things change for you.
When you get older, most of your age mates with whom you are friends will move to another place, and most of them will die. The main reason why men die young is because they don’t have anybody to talk to, people to share their feelings with, people to share their journey with, people to mentor and this boring life quickly affects them. It affects them a lot mentally and it’s weak their body and This is one of the reasons why you don't see them smile.
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Making friends with younger ones as you grow older will help you to manage your mind and this can help you to grow older. You will not be lonely at the end of your life, When your friends are dying, you will still have people who can comfort you, who you can talk to that will help you to navigate, and you will also have people that you also mentoring. This is another hack that can help you in your journey because with everything men face not having people to talk to or to relate with also makes the problem worse.
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