It's certain that the energy that is set around you keeps and makes you what and who you are.
There is only one thing that sharpens Iron and that one thing is still Iron.
You can't keep a brass and expect it to sharpen an iron.
Trust me you will end up losing one and not achieving the set goal so it's better not to even start it.
How do you expect yourself to be the best version of yourself when you keep garbage as your circle.
You don't get what you want when you mingle among people who will not even offer a dime as a quota towards helping you become what you should be, not just being it but being effective to both yourself and also people around you.
Not some kind of weapon that will rather destroy than build.
I have engaged with some friends who instead of helping out turned out to be blocks for stumbling.
Friends who will not give you updates on what works but will rather choose to hide every process that would have advanced you into becoming a better version of yourself.
Friends that will want you to rely and depend on them, just so they will mock and ridicule you, simply because you are unable to meet their standard.
A good circle will make sure everyone is carried along despite all odds of life.
When you don't see these things amongst you then just know and register within you that you are with the wrong companies and with immediate effect it is advisable that you cut out and save yourself the upcoming self destruction.
How do you get to know friends that will help improve you?
True friends are characterized by such an attitude or behaviour.
Affection: being able to keep you at heart no matter what they make sure you are always ok in fact they become affected when you are affected.
Trust: Being able to share the deepest secrets with no fear of it being exposed to the hearing of other people. Friends you know your likelihood is safe.
I mean someone you will be able to share your crypto wallets password worth thousands of dollars with and have no fear that you will wake up someday to an empty wallet.
As that can cause a heart attack and can lead to sudden dismissal as where the treasure of a man is his heart is also there.
Respect: Being able to respect your opinion and your ideas as well makes them worth being with.
Someone who will respect your home and protect it like it's his.
I wonder when some people come up with stories of friends coming to the house to cheat with their wife, like did you not perceive it coming? When you have such a friend you should be able to tell, and if you can't tell of such then the supposed friend is not a friend. So it will be in your best interest to cut such off your circle.
Empathy: Being able to share the same feeling not by imagination but getting the real feelings of how you feel concerning something pertaining to you tells how good that friend is.
Positive energy: Being able to always come up with positive vibes just to keep you always on the winning lane even when you see it not coming anytime soon but they keep encouraging you to work, trust and believe and in no time you will see the results of their persistence in keeping the positivity of life
Keep off this category of people who call themselves friends.
When they see the truth and decide to keep it away from you.
When they see you falling and still choose to allow you to fall with the simple excuse of wanting you to learn. What if you fall and never rise, how will that mistake be corrected?
When they will not want you to grow alongside them.
Just keep off all bad energy and cling to what you know will for sure workout.
Positivevibes