Today's man is fiercely competitive. He is faltering in his efforts to dominate others in every possible way. Along with our unprecedented economic and scientific progress, our ability to hurt and hurt each other has not diminished.
The ever-rising walls of our "I" have distorted the beautiful face of this world.
This is our "I", this is our ego that we want to win in every situation, we just hurt each other, defeat each other and break all the rules and regulations in just a few moments. How many aspirations bleed to keep the sense of superiority and their "I" fresh, how many people's emotions play, how many hearts hurt and break. Have we ever considered the important point that the end? What is the reason that thousands of people around us, whether they are close relatives, friends, or friends of friends, despite their successful lives and money, they do not have a wealth of contentment, peace and happiness. If you talk to a person, his voice will come from a deep abyss
Apparently he is talking to you, but in the meanwhile forty more things are going on in his mind at the same time. Which are burning his whole body like wet wood. What would be these thoughts. Not that such and such a person, such and such a family member or such and such a friend has surpassed me in the race for progress. So-and-so got married in a big family, so-and-so went to a big post. So-and-so's friend became more popular than me. So-and-so took an expensive car. So-and-so's business grew more than me. More intelligent than my children, more talented than me, so-and-so with me, so-and-so with me, and so on and so forth.
And then one day the same person burns in the fire inside him and turns himself into a pile of ashes. Then comes the time when he becomes obsessed with becoming an honorable and famous "man" in front of others He seeks honor and fame from other human beings. And this is the time when he completely ignores God's command that "He will give honor to whomever He wills and disgrace to whomever He wills", but as in God's court The door to repentance and forgiveness is always open. In the same way, a person can bring back his true happiness, peace of mind and contentment whenever and however he wants. but how?
First of all, we must return to nature and simplicity.
How pleasant and simple it is to live in harmony with nature in the true sense of the word, that you live a calm and simple life in all kinds of situations in every age. Simplicity and harmony with nature, live life as it is. The rules of life require it. Start loving people.
Start humming songs of love and affection in front of people. Absorb tears in your tears
Make it a slogan to forgive others for their mistakes and abuses.
Let the walls of hatred be torn down forever.
Kill your "I", your ego, which makes you feel arrogant and superior to other human beings, and forgive the mistakes of others that have not yet been committed by them.
Start announcing the fate of the poor, orphans and the needy without declaring it. Clean your inner self, not your outward appearance.
If your heart is a volcano, then flowers in your hands are also snakes.
Stop begging for respect and fame from other "human beings" like you, raise your self-esteem, meet yourself and see if you ever meet yourself.
The Chinese poor Laoza used to say. To this day, not a single person in the world has been able to humiliate and disgrace me. Why ?? Because I did not expect or desire honor from anyone.
I have never been ashamed in a party that I would go and sit where no one else likes to sit, where people take off their shoes in the party I sit there. No one can chase me away from there. You will not be able to beat me, because I am a loser and I am a loser because I have no desire to win.
Remember God cannot be honored by humiliating other human beings.
God's servants are those who walk humbly on earth. It is a divine command.
And the servants of the Beneficent Allah are those who walk humbly on the earth, and when the ignorant speak to them, they salute them and turn away from them. Give orders and stay away from the ignorant, Surah Al-A'raf.
Human beings should not be despised under any circumstances. Let us start reckoning with ourselves today and seek again to find the lost joys that are all around us but our "I" and Our ego can't see them.