Hola amigos, hoy para el #bloggingchallenge traigo para ustedes una confesión. Para poder responder a esto, di muchas vueltas a la mente, porque hay tantas cosas que pudiera contar pero no se, son muy personales, si embargo puedo confesarles que a pesar de que hace un año, la empresa que había creado con quien era mi socio, estoy feliz de que haya terminado.
Durante los primeros 2 años todo iba excelente, hasta que de pronto mi socio comenzaba a tomar decisiones sin consultarme. Era decepcionante porque había una amistad que consideraba bastante genial y sentía mucha confianza. Pero la comunicación comenzó a perderse y llegar a un acuerdo parecía el inicio de una discusión. Con el tiempo las cosas se ponían peores, tras hacer cosas a mis espaldas también venían problemas de los que no estaba enterada, era horrible, me sentía desplazada dentro de mi propia empresa y se estaba convirtiendo en una pesadilla, pase 2 años deseando despertar para ir a trabajar, el ambiente era agradable, estábamos en proceso de inversión y de ver crecer algo a lo que le pusimos corazón. Al tratarse de Diseño gráfico teníamos normas para la elaboración de logos, teníamos contactos para resolver impresiones y estábamos preparando a los muchachos a hacer diseños web.
Amaba ir y de pronto ya no quería ni levantarme de la cama, no soportaba la idea de ver a nadie, pasaban cosas y cosas y trataba de ver que estaba pasando y resultó que mi socio se enamoró de una de las chicas, sabiendo que uno de los tratos entre ambos es que no íbamos a tener familiares o pareja en la empresa porque podría ocasionar incomodidades, lo que fué tal cual el pronóstico, ya mi socio llegaba tarde y la empleada junto con él, es decir, el telefono con el que se atendía a los clientes llegaba casi al las 11am cuando la hora de entrada era a las 8:00am. Estaba frustrada y ya estaba pensando en romper sociedad para ganar en salud, pero me daba miedo perder mi dependencia económica, pero la pandemia lo aceleró todo.
Ya hace casi 1 año que cerramos para no volver a abrir y hoy en día mi amigo(Socio) , trata de recuperar la amistad, pero sinceramente no sabe cuán dolida estoy, porque la deshonestidad y la hipocresía es algo que no va conmigo, y aunque le tengo mucho aprecio, evito el contacto con él.
Esta es mi historia de confesión. Hoy en día hago varias cosas y consigo dinero para mi hogar, no es como quisiera pero tengo tranquilidad. Por ahora tengo como trabajar pero parte de mis planes con hive es lograr conseguir mi plotter silhouette, sería mi meta a mediano plazo para emprender con las herramientas correctas.
Gracias por leer y acompañarme en esta publicación.
Hello friends, today for the #bloggingchallenge I bring to you a confession. To be able to answer this, I gave many turns to the mind, because there are so many things I could tell but I do not know, they are very personal, however I can confess that although a year ago, the company I had created with who was my partner, I am happy that it has ended.
During the first 2 years everything was going great, until suddenly my partner started to make decisions without consulting me. It was disappointing because there was a friendship that I thought was pretty great and I felt a lot of trust. But communication started to fade and reaching an agreement seemed like the start of an argument. As time went by things got worse, after doing things behind my back also came problems that I was not aware of, it was horrible, I felt displaced within my own company and it was becoming a nightmare, I spent 2 years wishing to wake up to go to work, the atmosphere was nice, we were in the process of investing and seeing something grow to which we put heart. Being Graphic Design we had standards for the development of logos, we had contacts to solve printing and we were preparing the guys to do web design.
I loved going and suddenly I didn't even want to get out of bed, I couldn't stand the idea of seeing anyone, things were happening and I was trying to see what was going on and it turned out that my partner fell in love with one of the girls, knowing that one of the deals between us was that we were not going to have family or partners in the company because it could cause discomfort, What happened was just as predicted, my partner was already late and the employee along with him, that is to say, the telephone with which the clients were attended arrived almost at 11am when the entrance time was at 8: 00am. I was frustrated and I was already thinking about breaking up a partnership to gain in health, but I was afraid of losing my economic dependence, but the pandemic accelerated everything.
It has been almost 1 year since we closed to not reopen and today my friend (Partner), is trying to recover the friendship, but honestly does not know how hurt I am, because dishonesty and hypocrisy is something that does not go with me, and although I have much appreciation for him, I avoid contact with him.
This is my confession story. Nowadays I do several things and I get money for my home, it is not as I would like but I have peace of mind. For now I have how to work but part of my plans with hive is to get my silhouette plotter, it would be my medium term goal to undertake with the right tools.
Thanks for reading and joining me in this publication.