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It is the start of a new month, the eighth month of the year which is a clear indication that the year is fast running out and you may be afraid if you are going to tick all your boxes of the goals you have set for the year. Well, look closely you are making progress. Each and everyone of us have a set target about what we want to achieve before the end of the year and whether you like it or not it is almost impossible for two different people to have the same set of goals. We have different hunger for different things at a particular time although it may be similar in a way.
There are some people who set the goals of completely a certain project before the end of the year and there are some whose goals include saving up a certain amount of money or powering up a certain amount of hive power (hp) before the year ends. Others may include getting a well paying job, starting a business, completing their studies in the University, and so on. For some others it may be completing the process of recovery from a bad event that happened to them such as relationship heartbreak, losing funds to scam investments or even losing a loved one.
There are moments when it may cross your mind that you are far from achieving your goals and this may negatively affect your mood and productivity. Also, when these thoughts cross our mind we may begin to carry out the frustration on people around us and it will affect our relationship with them and sometimes those relationships may be lost forever if not well handled, when in actual fact they are not the reason your goals are not achieved yet. In some cases, we feel like the whole world is against us that we begin to swim in the pool of self-pity.
Well, in actual fact you are gradually making progress and moving closer to your goals but due to the fact that you have not been able to see the results that you want to see you close your eyes to the small wins you have been recording and not agree that you are not at the exact position where you started from. You most likely do not acknowledge your progress because it is not the result you want but you fail to come to terms that it is these little baby steps/progress that will bring about the big win. You should always have moments you ponder on how far you have come, the challenges you have faced and overcome and the wayforward instead of being frustrated about the process.
I need you to understand that these thoughts will creep into your mind once in a while or even every seconds of the day, depending on how pressing these goals are. You need to have the understanding that they are not coming to your mind to break you down but they are a reminder that you still have some few steps to take to achieving your desired results. When you reflect on your progress, you will be inspired to do more to attain your goals. These moments are meant to evaluate and not condemn yourself. It is the time to ask yourself some important questions to decipher the next big step to take.
Most of the time, we are on the right track but we often get distracted because when we look around us we see our friends, colleagues, family members doing better than us. But on the flip side, we forget that each person have their own timing. You didn't start your journey at the same time with these people you're making comparisons with, so it should not affect you. Apart from that, we all run different races and the time of completion are different, so we should not be pressured with other people's progress. For instance, the time and energy that will be used to complete a 100m race is different from that of 400m, 800m or a relay race.
In short, focus on your race, appreciate the little progress and use the lessons learnt to develop yourself and your big win will be close even before you know it.
Thanks for reading and see you in my next one.
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