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So the other day I asked someone what she wants in a relationship and the list was enormous. After reading all of it, I couldn't help but laugh, and I told her this:
So you want all these in just one man, you think say if every man get all these things, say any girl for dey single?
Even you, you sure say you fit do all these?
Well, the truth is, I understand you very well. Every woman needs a sweet man, and every man needs a sweet woman too.
But relationship and marriage is not always 95 percent perfect, let alone 100 percent.
There are things you need to adapt to about your partner, there are some you need to live with like that, there are some you just need to get used to if you can't change them.
We all come from different backgrounds, have different mindsets and beliefs, think differently, and grew up in different environments which affect us in different ways. So my love, you get someone who has some, brush the person to fit into what you want, the ones you can't brush, you get used to them.