Like we all know and I have said here before, Life Isn't Balanced. And this is just the way it should be because if it gets balanced at any point, then, we are faced with absolutely nothing to live for. Well, it clearly now depends on what you actually call a balanced life. And this can be seen from two different perspectives - with each not wrong or right than the other. It's just the way it is being captured that matters. What exactly is all this shit I am trying to say? Well, it just simple to breakdown though.
To me, life seems balanced enough having the good and bad sides of it. I mean, like I have explained before, when the result of a scale is giving you that leveled plane, then it just as balanced as it can get. But when it gives you a total unleveled plane, whereby one goes way down and the other goes up, that just as unbalanced as it can get.
To me, this is how I see life as a balanced form at times - or in most cases, most times. But for others, it is just when life is all about good and no bad. Like that of the paradise we have all heard of right from our Infact days.
So, things will always happen. It happens to us everyday of our life. Things we see and take common, things that stuck to us a remarkable events and blah blah blah. But these things are what life has thrown to us. Most times, what we planned isn't what we actually see ongoing. These forces us to get tired down the road, frustrated to the point of giving up. And in the contrast, we term this as testimonies or miracle of some sort because they actually fell to our favour.
Recently, a friend of mine just dropped off the idea of furthering his education because he had been trying to get in for the past two years now but always end up on the bad side of it all. At first, it was it was because his desired course was changed to "something way much lesser and not even making sense" despite the fact that he attained very good scores both in solo and aggregate, and even beat the cut off mark by far.
Nahhhhh.... He was going to go for a second try which saw him, truthfully as confessed by him, reluctantly slipped in terms of studying and he got a score way below the cut off mark. The fucked up issue is, he wasn't prepared switching or considering other course or institutions, and before we knew it, it was a blow that he had given up education finally - at least for now.
Yea, life's just doing its shit again. Always doing that shit. And by now, we should have gotten used to the fact that life doesn't really check our plan book in order to operate. It just happens. And, this happenings could be way out of our expectations both in the positive aspect and the negative aspect. To whom it may concern, regrets in life is more like a waste of time. It is wonderful if it is good. Infact, it is a Bravo! But it is also an experience if it is bad. One you should be delighted to have gotten no matter the edge it drove you in.
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