- Groucho Marx
Are you agree with me if I say, "Human born as a Clay Lump" ? No shape, but shapeable. Human born without any prior knowledge or experience. Only thing they bring is physical organs of the body and mind. Only sound they make is "Ewww"!!
When the baby expose to environment, he gets shaped. He learn continuously from his family, neighbors, teachers, friends, visuals, sounds and everything. They learn by mistakes what THEY DO. They responsible to not to do same mistake again. By the time the child become shaped according to the environment he lives.
Learning and Shaping
There is an age that they start to look at others eagerly. They observe what others do, how they score well at school, how they become success in love.
Looking at others. How they do
In this age they have the sense of understanding the root cause of each consequence. Now this is the best time to teach them to LEARN FROM OTHER'S MISTAKES. Parents can help their children to understand what went wrong with the other one. Even if not, this ability comes naturally with the age. As an example, in my child classes, I saw other girls starts reasonless love affairs even in age 14, 15 and break their school journey. Most of them end up being single mothers in such young ages. Our parents even didn't know about such horrible things. But looking at how other girls' destroying their education, I was so careful to not to involve in any kind of affair at school age. When we are growing, we have a lot to learn from others.
In this world, there are things that we can't test before do
There are things that we can't turn back if happened. So we should have a way to know what are consequence of particular activity somehow. Society is the best book to ready to know, "what will happen next", before we do.
Specially family problems. When I see someone break up or separate, I tell my self, I will never do that fault by my self. It is true we can't experience everything by ourselves. As well as may be there is no second chance. So we have to be careful to learn from other's mistakes!
This is my entry to ENERGY REFILL CONTEST - Round 09 [ENG-ESP] by @tripode . All doodles, photos are my own